That's just grammar. Possibly sloppy American grammar. You, in my sentence "as being how you act", does not refer to you personally. A better formulation would have been "as being how ONE acts", meaning anyone. I think French has a more useful construction with the use of their word "on". Anyway if someone says "you don't spit into the wind" it doesn't mean YOU don't, it means no one does it.
Angelina I see what you mean, I just think that your body should have some value for you. you can show yourself sexy to anyone who is worth it, but really only to those who are worth it
I have seen German women on the beach in Acadia National Park in Maine in the US without tops on. Does this mean their bodies have no value to them? I think not. Are they trying to be sexy? I think not. They are not doing it to entertain nearby men, tho American men gawk at them. They are, I think, doing it because they want to. I wouldn't do it but I don't make any moral judgements about these women who do because it is a part of their culture, like that English Garden park in München where people lie out naked. Among my friends wearing the smallest bikini you can get to stay on is a part of the culture we are in.
