Joh OK. Still, it's strange to me that he's showing you girls.

this is really very strange. why does a man who wants a woman show her photos of other women he finds pretty?

I would not like that

alina it's just internet photos not real people 😆

behind people from the internet there are also real people

Laura It's not his choice, but her parents'

When she moves in with him, her parents have nothing more to say.

Joh It's really surprising to me how easily you would give up your freedom to someone.

But she also gains freedom, namely freedom from her parents, or rather, from her parents' methods of education.

    Angelina When she moves in with him, her parents have nothing more to say.

    They promised a belt until marriage 😂

      Laura They promised a belt until marriage

      If she moves in she can pick the lock or use a hacksaw. Problem solved.

      Laura so, in the religion of beling women ut would be on him as well as soon as they are married, isn't it?
      So, if you want to meet a women to marry whom you want to wear a belt then.... when is it the time for him to tell her?

      And for us boys: When would you like to be told (and how) that we wear a chastity belt... if you were not in that szene?

        Max9 hen is it the time for him to tell her?

        That he wants her to wear a belt?

        Max9 And for us boys: When would you like to be told (and how) that we wear a chastity belt... if you were not in that szene?

        Honestly, I can't imagine it 😂

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          alina I'm considering if I really like him, and if he chooses to keep the belt. I don't think he would anyway.

          I don't know him but this would be a opportunity too appealing. I would not decline.

          Laura That he wants her to wear a belt?

          yeah

          Laura Honestly, I can't imagine it

          would be interresting to know 🤷‍♂️

            Max9 yeah

            It depends on whether she is familiar with chastity belts

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              Max9 Also for what purpose? To ensure my virginity or my fidelity?

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                Laura well, virginity after marriage doesn't make sense and if you are infidel without a belt the marriage is as good as over anyway... how about to ensure your sexuality is exclusive for your husband, so said to prevent masturbation.

                  HHelen You keep the belt a secret from him

                  Yes, I do. And I think, that a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

                    Max9 well, virginity after marriage doesn't make sense

                    Before, if you know your girlfriend is virgin

                    Renita a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

                    Ideally until wedding night 😂

                      Angelina and he would leave not because of the belt but because of lack of trust.

                      Men's logic. Coz that was him who tried to move forward with sex.

                        Laura They promised a belt until marriage 😂

                        that's true, but how should this be implemented in practice? i'll give you an example. i would move with my girlfriend into a flat 500 kilometres away from my father. i don't see any way that belt-wearing would still work.

                        Renita Yes, I do. And I think, that a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

                        but only as long as there is no danger of him discovering it by accident. then he could have the feeling that you were not honest and that the relationship is not important to you.

                        Christine Men's logic. Coz that was him who tried to move forward with sex.

                        this is not men's logic. at a certain point, both partners in a relationship usually want to have sex, and at the latest (really at the latest) at this point the woman should say it honestly.

                          So ... how would you girls react when a man who you're dating tells you that he likes being belted? How would you like to be told that?

                            Angelina but how should this be implemented in practice?

                            She shouldn't move to another city

                              Christine it is not men logic. If you are not honest whit needs, facts and desires, you are not trustworthy by universal logic.

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                              Laura Ideally until wedding night

                              Not a bad idea 😃

                              Angelina but only as long as there is no danger of him discovering it by accident

                              Then he will be explained why I have to wear it.

                              Angelina then he could have the feeling that you were not honest

                              I don't think so.

                                Max9

                                i would want him to tell me at least when we are talking about a real relationship. he should tell me why he likes it and who has the keys.

                                Laura She shouldn't move to another city

                                but that is not always possible. there is not always a suitable flat in your hometown.

                                Renita I don't think so.

                                then we will not agree at that point. write when it is so far with you and how he reacted when he discovered it by chance and without warning beforehand from you.