Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt

Laura That he wants her to wear a belt?

yeah

Laura Honestly, I can't imagine it

would be interresting to know

Max9 yeah

It depends on whether she is familiar with chastity belts

Laura how about both cases?

Max9 Also for what purpose? To ensure my virginity or my fidelity?

Laura well, virginity after marriage doesn't make sense and if you are infidel without a belt the marriage is as good as over anyway... how about to ensure your sexuality is exclusive for your husband, so said to prevent masturbation.

HHelen You keep the belt a secret from him

Yes, I do. And I think, that a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

Max9 well, virginity after marriage doesn't make sense

Before, if you know your girlfriend is virgin

Renita a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

Ideally until wedding night

Angelina and he would leave not because of the belt but because of lack of trust.

Men's logic. Coz that was him who tried to move forward with sex.

Laura They promised a belt until marriage

that's true, but how should this be implemented in practice? i'll give you an example. i would move with my girlfriend into a flat 500 kilometres away from my father. i don't see any way that belt-wearing would still work.

Renita Yes, I do. And I think, that a girl should keep it in secret as long as possible.

but only as long as there is no danger of him discovering it by accident. then he could have the feeling that you were not honest and that the relationship is not important to you.

Christine Men's logic. Coz that was him who tried to move forward with sex.

this is not men's logic. at a certain point, both partners in a relationship usually want to have sex, and at the latest (really at the latest) at this point the woman should say it honestly.

So ... how would you girls react when a man who you're dating tells you that he likes being belted? How would you like to be told that?

Max9

i would want him to tell me at least when we are talking about a real relationship. he should tell me why he likes it and who has the keys.

Laura She shouldn't move to another city

but that is not always possible. there is not always a suitable flat in your hometown.

Renita I don't think so.

then we will not agree at that point. write when it is so far with you and how he reacted when he discovered it by chance and without warning beforehand from you.

Angelina her parents have nothing more to say.

She shouldn't live with a guy without marriage.

HHelen

Going into a life-long commitment without even knowing if you can still stand each other after a while once you start being together 24/7? (You can't judge if that works from just having dates, and not even fully from a shared vacation.)

carg Going into a life-long commitment without even knowing if you can still stand each other after a while once you start being together 24/7?

I don't see a problem with it.

HHelen And do you see problem in honor killing?

Max9 So ... how would you girls react when a man who you're dating tells you that he likes being belted? How would you like to be told that?

Yuk - like its unfair but that's what I think. But like it all depends I mean if it's just sort term play that's one thing but I don't think I'd accept of it was long term or he had a keyholder. I guess if he has those thought he should tell me when I tell him.

HHelen She shouldn't live with a guy without marriage.

over 90% of all couples live together before the wedding, this is completely normal.

HHelen I don't see a problem with it.

So you would marry a man with whom you have not lived before?