Maija if appropriate precautions are taken, and enough exercise is allowed
That is an important caveat. Wearing the bands regularly is one thing, never getting anybreaks were legs can be stretched is another thing entirely
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Sorry that i have come across as such. You and all the medical professionals (@Ines and @Foxies) are most certainly right: without exercise breaks thighbands are definitely harmful.
However, almost anything "bad" isn't a big deal if done in moderation and with appropriate precautions (think of junk food, for example)
Maija They're definitely not, if appropriate precautions are taken, and enough exercise is allowed
i haven't had any problems yet either, but i wouldn't presume to speak for everyone.
i agree with you that it can be harmful to wear the thighbands permenently without sufficient movement breaks, however, it does not have to be harmful. i do believe medical experts, but medical experts also consider many other things to be harmful, which are mostly not harmful if enjoyed in moderation.
Jen Perhaps the more comfortable you feel the more you wear 'em in the long run.
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sun I used to have one, sorta. She was half white, Christian, and American. Back in 2019, I was just like her except for the half white part. But since the beginning of the pandemic, I've gone on a journey rediscovering my identity and self. As a result, I don't think I can marry an American Christian anymore. The unfortunate thing is, I think it's harder to find a Chinese girl who wants a traditional marriage than a Christian girl who wants the same nowadays. Doesn't help that there aren't that many Asians where I live. Mainland China's become a very different place than it was decades ago, and I haven't been back in years.
Where exactly in Northern China are you from? I've read through the story of you and your wife thoroughly, and felt like your strategy was kinda risky. But I guess if she's 顺从 then it might make sense.
sun I even don't know how to figure out if she really like the chastity belt.
Why do you must know? If she want you to make the decisions and she accept it everything is fine. If she really don't like it you both have to talk about to find a solution which fits for both of you.
She wants you as leader, than you must lead.
sun .I even don't know how to figure out if she really like the chastity belt.
why don't you ask her openly and honestly? i don't really understand the problem, either she likes the belt, she accepts the belt because you like it, or she doesn't accept it, then you need other solutions. that's not a big problem, is it?
sun She refuses to talk about such topics deeply.Actually many Chinese women hate topics about sex,some of them even think such topics disgusting.
i can understand this for cultural reasons, but i think it is not good for the relationship. i think if you ask things here in the forum that you should actually discuss with your wife, you should communicate more honestly.
sun Are you from a smaller city? If so, I'd say yeah go ahead and put them on her. It'll be fine.
sun I concur. I don't feel entirely comfortable talking about these topics, either. My discussions here regarding thigh bands are purely functional. Even then, the things I said on here might be perceived as "s*xual" by a Chinese woman.
