Installation Ceremony

Ines I can understand a user does not have to be 30 years old, but sexualizing childhood is something that should not be echoed.

where I would ask again what you consider appropriate? 16?,17?,18+? 25.5489635?

probably, after almost 3 years in the belt, the word sexualize bothers me a lot, please don't be angry with me that I don't see the belt as something sexualizing (generally not). it has to do with sexuality but something sexualizing would be something that promotes sexuality in my opinion and the belt does not do that if the concept of chastity is taken seriously

Ines I see it as @Ines. The belt has an effect on your sexuality and with that you can not deny it.

Ines A belt is a tool to avoid sexual contact of every nature, when someone pretends do it with a minor, that person is considering that small person as a sexual being, so... No in this forum.

I wouldn't comment about age on the forum and definitely no child pornography and definitely no sexualization of chastity belts...
I would point out that women like me who wear from a young age do not struggle to masturbate and do not complain about feeling horny all the time. I would also remind you that chastity belts would probably be a lot better than FGM in those countries.

There is no reason to have minors on the forum especially since the loudest people who speak about chastity are people who are oversexed and want a break to make sex special again. Or are into BDSM.
The women who need help are quiet and timid and probably only one out of a thousand speaks up and their needs are drown out by people who own a chastity toy.

Megan

Megan I would point out that women like me who wear from a young age do not struggle to masturbate and do not complain about feeling horny all the time.

Ole!
It is just the point, @Megan , you expressed it in one sentence.
I think exactly the same and I think it is too much in the forum.

Ines Absolutely yes...

Ines when someone pretends do it with a minor, that person is considering that small person as a sexual being

that would be true if the key holder was some strange adult, but in most cases here it is one's own parents, and it is usually about other things, usually you can sum it up as "good and decent daughter".

Joh The belt has an effect on your sexuality and with that you can not deny it.

of course the belt has an influence on sexuality, but in my opinion they are still two different things.

Ines

I see that we will unfortunately not reach an agreement at this point

Angelina that would be true if the key holder was some strange adult, but in most cases here it is one's own parents

SInce most sexual abuse happens with close family members, I am afraid that is no excuse.

Ines Using a belt you are considering that the wearer has a developed sexuality

Or you are trying to be proactive instead of reactive, attempting to ensure they do not develop unwelcome habits so you do not have to break those habits later.

Of course, interfering with a person's sexual development is a precarious situation, and normalizing the idea that someone else controls your body before you really felt profound sexual desire in your life carries some seriously unfortunate implications, but if you look at it from the perspective of preserving your perfectly innocent angel, if you wait for their sexuality to be fully developed, it may be too late for that preservation.

youdontknowme Of course, interfering with a person's sexual development is a precarious situation, and normalizing the idea that someone else controls your body before you really felt profound sexual desire in your life carries some seriously unfortunate implications, but if you look at it from the perspective of preserving your perfectly innocent angel, if you wait for their sexuality to be fully developed, it may be too late for that preservation.

If parents do this they over protect their children and let them no space to develop. They are called helicopter parents.

With this view, one could certainly justify the following action. If my child meets other children and is with them, he or she could be influenced in some way that I don't like. Just to be on the safe side, I don't let my child be with other children. I keep it only in our house/flat.

youdontknowme SInce most sexual abuse happens with close family members, I am afraid that is no excuse.

yes, that's frankly a shame, i admit i agree with you but can't say i understand it

Joh If parents do this they over protect their children and let them no space to develop. They are called helicopter parents.

that's a point i've also thought about with my father, but haven't come to a conclusion. there are areas where he gives me a lot of freedom and areas where he restricts me a lot. i think he sometimes projects his own bad experiences in life onto me and areas where he himself was also successful, he gives me a lot of freedom there.

Angelina i think he sometimes projects his own bad experiences in life onto me and areas where he himself was also successful, he gives me a lot of freedom there.

This could be.

Joh

it is very likely and I often think about it

Angelina
I had written it before. I think he should get help and solve his problems. You will not always be there. And then what?

Joh You will not always be there. And then what?

that is a good question, but since i will be working in his house it is not quite right, but i agree that he should have some problems treated