Installation Ceremony

audioguy58

I was wondering if it would make any sense to have some kind of “installation ceremony” when a new belt-wearer receives their belt.

Such a ceremony would be a promise made in public, much as a wedding ceremony is a promise made in public.

Such a ceremony could have a religious component, but it wouldn’t have to. It could be Christian, but it wouldn’t have to be; it could be Wiccan/Pagan, but it wouldn’t have to be.

Giving a key as part of a wedding ceremony is something that was already touched on by Robert Pinkerton. I have a document around here somewhere that he sent me many years ago in regard to that.

Ines

audioguy58
Well, as a theoretical exercise I like it, but as an idea, no.
I'm sure we all remember the first day we heard the "click" on our bellies, because that day we had an engagement, but I don't like the idea of having a public ceremony.
It is certainly an important act, but intimate.

audioguy58 Giving a key as part of a wedding ceremony is something that was already touched on by Robert Pinkerton. I have a document around here somewhere that he sent me many years ago in regard to that.

It would be great if you share it with us, for sure.

Angelina

audioguy58

I find the idea interesting, but not good. it doesn't matter in what form, but wearing a chastity belt is always something intimate and personal. many (including volunteers) hide the belt, it's not for the public

Max9

Ines how about a public lock exchange when the person already wears the belt? Like that the keyholder puts on a new lock only he / she has the keys to.

Ines

Max9
Mmmm, no, I am big advocate of chastity belt, It is not a shame at all, but I prefer let it into private spheres.
The parents discretely giving a key to husband in wedding is enough.

At most, it could be "acceptable" that it was traditional that, upon reaching a certain age, a belt would be given away, but, more, no.

audioguy58

Robert Pinkerton once told me of a Jewish friend who commented that giving a (non-Jewish) girl a chastity belt at age 13 was equivalent to a “goyische Bat-Mitzvah”.

Ines

audioguy58
Mmmmm...
In some cultures do not accept that a 13 years old child should not be sexualized.
The comment is very sad.

audioguy58

Ines I had wanted to respond to your comment by merely including a link to the discussion “Age to Begin”, but that thread seems to have gone away.

Angelina

Ines In some cultures do not accept that a 13 years old child should not be sexualized.

you've written this here before, but i'm kind of bothered by the word "sexualised". a chastity belt prevents sexual pleasure, so it's more the opposite, at least for anyone who takes the chastity belt as something serious.

Joh Sorry, as the other sad already it is a private topic and it should stay private.

i agree , we could also talk about other forms of ceremonies, but they should all remain private 😉

Joh

Have you ever heard about someone had a public ceremony of his girl friend pants?
Sorry, as the other sad already it is a private topic and it should stay private.

Another talk is it when your friend knows about your kind of relation and all invited people are in some way part of it, than you can do a ceremony. Go for it and send me an invitation. 👍️

Ines

Angelina
Well, It is clear that a girl wears a chastity belt for something. If a girl wears it is dilue she is considered as a sexual individual.
When you are so young, wearing a belt takes you to a dimension where you should not be.
I can understand a user does not have to be 30 years old, but sexualizing childhood is something that should not be echoed.

Angelina

Ines I can understand a user does not have to be 30 years old, but sexualizing childhood is something that should not be echoed.

where I would ask again what you consider appropriate? 16?,17?,18+? 25.5489635?

probably, after almost 3 years in the belt, the word sexualize bothers me a lot, please don't be angry with me that I don't see the belt as something sexualizing (generally not). it has to do with sexuality but something sexualizing would be something that promotes sexuality in my opinion and the belt does not do that if the concept of chastity is taken seriously

Ines

Angelina

Angelina 25.5489635

Nice number.

Angelina would be something that promotes sexuality in my opinion and the belt does not do that if the concept of chastity is taken seriously

A belt is a tool to avoid sexual contact of every nature, when someone pretends do it with a minor, that person is considering that small person as a sexual being, so... No in this forum.

Joh

Ines I see it as @Ines. The belt has an effect on your sexuality and with that you can not deny it.

Megan

Ines A belt is a tool to avoid sexual contact of every nature, when someone pretends do it with a minor, that person is considering that small person as a sexual being, so... No in this forum.

I wouldn't comment about age on the forum and definitely no child pornography and definitely no sexualization of chastity belts...
I would point out that women like me who wear from a young age do not struggle to masturbate and do not complain about feeling horny all the time. I would also remind you that chastity belts would probably be a lot better than FGM in those countries.

There is no reason to have minors on the forum especially since the loudest people who speak about chastity are people who are oversexed and want a break to make sex special again. Or are into BDSM.
The women who need help are quiet and timid and probably only one out of a thousand speaks up and their needs are drown out by people who own a chastity toy.

Angelina

Ines when someone pretends do it with a minor, that person is considering that small person as a sexual being

that would be true if the key holder was some strange adult, but in most cases here it is one's own parents, and it is usually about other things, usually you can sum it up as "good and decent daughter".

Joh The belt has an effect on your sexuality and with that you can not deny it.

of course the belt has an influence on sexuality, but in my opinion they are still two different things.

Ines

Megan

Megan I would point out that women like me who wear from a young age do not struggle to masturbate and do not complain about feeling horny all the time.

Ole!
It is just the point, @Megan , you expressed it in one sentence.
I think exactly the same and I think it is too much in the forum.

Megan

Ines Absolutely yes...

Ines

Angelina of course the belt has an influence on sexuality, but in my opinion they are still two different things.

Using a belt you are considering that the wearer has a developed sexuality. So, sorry, but not here.

youdontknowme

Angelina that would be true if the key holder was some strange adult, but in most cases here it is one's own parents

SInce most sexual abuse happens with close family members, I am afraid that is no excuse.

Ines Using a belt you are considering that the wearer has a developed sexuality

Or you are trying to be proactive instead of reactive, attempting to ensure they do not develop unwelcome habits so you do not have to break those habits later.

Of course, interfering with a person's sexual development is a precarious situation, and normalizing the idea that someone else controls your body before you really felt profound sexual desire in your life carries some seriously unfortunate implications, but if you look at it from the perspective of preserving your perfectly innocent angel, if you wait for their sexuality to be fully developed, it may be too late for that preservation.

Angelina

Ines

I see that we will unfortunately not reach an agreement at this point 😞