Megan
You have written a message that has many points to reflect on, I like to interact with you because it is seen not only that you have a lot of experience but also that you answer with more complex answers than usual.
Megan But if it was you @Rafael would you want someone tell you to learn to masturbate for education and then never do it again and just be uncomfortable ???
Here I think you are misunderstanding me, in my family we would never teach girls to do that, and in fact, they knew they were not allowed to do it.
That on the one hand, but actually I know what you mean, and it is that surely at some point they let go and did it without thinking about why it was forbidden.
Megan Of course you don't want to do anything with the girls that would be creepy and I won't say to belt teens like I was either because that would make me sound like the many pedophile trolls on the internet.
Again you are right and I think that talking about when you should start wearing a belt can be the subject of debate and I do not think that it should, as you say, give rise to pedophiles.
I think about starting at university to avoid possible abuses and allow healthy development, but it is also true that it was when we considered it, we would never know if another scenario would have been possible.
Megan Some people will say this is sweet, but if a woman were married to a controlling manipulative man it could be awful because you wouldn't want to leave.
It is sweet Your husband is very lucky to be able to enjoy you. I also agree with you in what you say about the risks of a bad man, but it is a risk that also exists without the belt. That is why we parents have the obligation to educate daughters who are women and who enjoy being women, but who value themselves and are safe.
Megan So I will just say everyone is different and @Ines zen comfort state is very great.
She is like that. She has very feminine manners and she is very clear about how to behave, but she doesn't let herself be ignored or stepped on.
