What would you need for a chastity-friendly culture?

cantsolvethecaptcha I think that nowadays in the west it is en vogue to „experiment“ and „gain experience“ before „settling down“. In the course of emanzipation the pendulum swung from strict mental chastity of girls to almost „whoring around“ before looking for a long term partner.

Sorry, I can't agree with your view. What we see is the freedom everyone has to decide for themselves how they want to go. If you not like this way with get your experience before marriage than don't do it.
This freedom also means that you have the freedom to remain chaste until you find the right partner. What is necessary for this? Tolerance towards the other lifestyle.

Ines I have realized the vast number of women who are unhappy with the current situation. They have taken away our role and they have released us so that we can fight with masculine paradigms, and in that we will always be worse because we are not men. It is as if you give an archer a spear and send him to fight.

I agree with you. Women should be just as good as men in a male-dominated system. That cannot work. But you have the possibility to change the system so that it fits better.

youdontknowme On the other hand, we have the situation experienced by Lukas and his sister, where zealous parents force something onto their children that they would never voluntarily accept, while not being vital to their health and well-being either. And in some cases (e.g. Lukas's sister), it ends up creating dysfunctional people who never learned self-control because they were driven to grow up with a grab-whatever-you-can mentality. I fear that normalizing chastity would inspire more parents to act like theirs, and increase the soft pressure on kids whose parents already entertain the idea of locking them up against their will.

I see it as you. This is a risk and should care about but if the society would be open for wearing a chastity belt it would also a lower step for children to get help if the are forced to wear one. It would a topic all would talk openly about what would be ok and what not.
Here in Germany, for example, most children and young people know what the legal situation is regarding sex. It would then be the same.

I think if wearing a chastity belt became more commonplace, the fetish for it would diminish. Here we try to distance ourselves from it because it has a different background but I think the difference is not really that big. It's just different and doesn't correspond to the ideas of most people here.
In the past, criminals, sailors or fringe groups had tattoos. Today it's almost unusual not to have one.

bdsamm They want all the women to travel in pairs but that is not easy or convenient.

Sorry, that is working on the impact instead of the causes. It may a solution for the moment but your society as a fundamental problem with what is right and wrong from my point of view.

Joh I see it as you. This is a risk and should care about but if the society would be open for wearing a chastity belt it would also a lower step for children to get help if the are forced to wear one. It would a topic all would talk openly about what would be ok and what not.
Here in Germany, for example, most children and young people know what the legal situation is regarding sex. It would then be the same.

That is why I said awareness and enforcement matter. Still, I believe there would still be many dependents who are put into chastity against their will, but who do not reach out to authorities because they still love their parents or live an otherwise comfortable life.

Joh The "problem" is of course the perputator and much is and has been done but personally, I always lock my house when I leave (even though I should not have to). By the same token it would be reasonable for a lady to lock up her genital area just in case.

bdsamm
I also lock my front door every time I leave. Everyone does that here, with a few exceptions. We also have some cases of rape here, some with murder. However, there are so few cases that there is no broad majority for a chastity belt as protection. The question is also what is the relationship between the number of cases in daily life and the restrictions.

Of course, it is up to each individual to decide which measures to take. Self-defence is certainly also an option, as is travelling in groups. I think a greater presence of police or guards is what can help too.

Joh This is a risk and should care about but if the society would be open for wearing a chastity belt it would also a lower step for children to get help if the are forced to wear on

i agree with the rest of your posts here in the topic, but i would clearly disagree here. i even see the risk that these children would get less help. if chastity belts were widely normal, authorities could say "don't get in trouble for such a small thing" or similar. the "shock effect" would be completely gone, a teenager in a chastity belt would no longer be abnormal and would not get such high attention.

it could even go so far that it is seen as similar to parents forcing their children to wear a bicycle helmet, i.e. that there is social support for it.

I would believe it would end up in the same category as spankings. Technically illegal, with popular opinion ranging from horrified to "permissible in extreme situations" in most of the population, but also some people who think regular harsh discipline is the one true way to bring up children, regardless of what the law says.

youdontknowme but also some people who think regular harsh discipline is the one true way to bring up children, regardless of what the law says.

that's right and i'll just say that spanking is socially more accepted than a chastity belt because many think that's how young people learn discipline. if it were the same with chastity belts, there would be more instances of forced chastity

Joh There are also laws against violence, and in some areas, people still believe in regular spankings and use them with impunity.

youdontknowme There are also laws against violence, and in some areas, people still believe in regular spankings and use them with impunity.

Yes, and it shows that the society ignore this fact. Some more other less.
If we break it down to the essentials, only when we are all committed and feel responsible will such things hardly ever happen.
Unfortunately, there will always be such things as violence against children, including their deaths.

Angelina conservative politicians to create certain chastity laws.

Which we already see in many Middle Eastern countries, which are draconian.

Rina no parent should force it to their children

No parents, but no husband too. Anyone should use a belt if she is forced.

Ines The problem is feminists have assumed that anything that sounds feminine is bad.

That’s absolutely not what feminism is about. I’m surprised at you.

hanna_anders That’s absolutely not what feminism is about. I’m surprised at you.

It is sad, but true, at least here, They are very concerned about TV programs that are liked by girls, toys, makeup, heels...
I do not know in your country but we have minister that is all the day with those nonsenses.
They want Everything that sounds like a woman has to be dismantled, starting with women's sports.

Ines The problem is feminists have assumed that anything that sounds feminine is bad.

These are type of “feminist” who also denies the existence of transgender because of that. They claim MTF transgenders try to emphasize “traditionally feminie” things stronger or make gender stereotypes worse, and mainstream feminists at least despise such kind of actions.

anything sounds feminie shouldn’t be forced, but not also be criticized just because it is perceived to be “feminine”

Lots of idiots under the umbrella of feminism. In Britain in particular, a quite vocal group is pushing the narrative that most trans women who have not had surgery are just men trying to sneak into women-only spaces like public toilets or something along those lines.

There are feminist causes I agree very strongly with, but there are also many that want to take it too far.