What would you need for a chastity-friendly culture?
bdsamm Did you have any indication that they were using any sort of equipment to maintain their sex free status. I knew a few single BYU graduates (male) and am confident they did not use devices and in fact doubt that they were remaining sex free.
I have no information at all on that. For that matter I'm not sure on the attitude toward solo-sex. I do know they marry early. Half the girls I run against (ages 19-22 usually) wear wedding rings. No one on my team is married. It would not surprise me if the men beat off if the girls will not accommodate them, which I believe they do not, generally. Too much family and group pressure if a girl ended up pregnant.
bdsamm It seems to me that chastity belts for University Students would be ideal considering the number of sexual assualts and unintended sexual encounters that seem to occur in colleges. I know that the contention is that the assualter is the problem but still it is the young woman who suffers from the assualt or regrets their decision made with too much alcohol. .
That is why I started wearing one. Was assaulted twice in daylight hours and I don't drink but it is a big city environment which is generally more dangerous where I live.
Thanks already! Great contributions so far, keep it up!
the question is harder than i thought at first. of course a chastity friendly society would be a big plus for most of us here on the forum, the advantages would be that we don't have to hide anymore, that we can talk openly with others about our belts and emotions and that we don't have to be afraid much anymore.
on the other hand, it would open the door for many parents to force their children to wear belts and for conservative politicians to create certain chastity laws.
Avery A very wise decision on your part. Take it upon yourself to insure your personal security. The University where I live has a major problem with security. They have done a lot to combat it but it is a very difficult problem to fix. They want all the women to travel in pairs but that is not easy or convenient.
cantsolvethecaptcha I think that nowadays in the west it is en vogue to „experiment“ and „gain experience“ before „settling down“. In the course of emanzipation the pendulum swung from strict mental chastity of girls to almost „whoring around“ before looking for a long term partner.
Sorry, I can't agree with your view. What we see is the freedom everyone has to decide for themselves how they want to go. If you not like this way with get your experience before marriage than don't do it.
This freedom also means that you have the freedom to remain chaste until you find the right partner. What is necessary for this? Tolerance towards the other lifestyle.
Ines I have realized the vast number of women who are unhappy with the current situation. They have taken away our role and they have released us so that we can fight with masculine paradigms, and in that we will always be worse because we are not men. It is as if you give an archer a spear and send him to fight.
I agree with you. Women should be just as good as men in a male-dominated system. That cannot work. But you have the possibility to change the system so that it fits better.
youdontknowme On the other hand, we have the situation experienced by Lukas and his sister, where zealous parents force something onto their children that they would never voluntarily accept, while not being vital to their health and well-being either. And in some cases (e.g. Lukas's sister), it ends up creating dysfunctional people who never learned self-control because they were driven to grow up with a grab-whatever-you-can mentality. I fear that normalizing chastity would inspire more parents to act like theirs, and increase the soft pressure on kids whose parents already entertain the idea of locking them up against their will.
I see it as you. This is a risk and should care about but if the society would be open for wearing a chastity belt it would also a lower step for children to get help if the are forced to wear one. It would a topic all would talk openly about what would be ok and what not.
Here in Germany, for example, most children and young people know what the legal situation is regarding sex. It would then be the same.
I think if wearing a chastity belt became more commonplace, the fetish for it would diminish. Here we try to distance ourselves from it because it has a different background but I think the difference is not really that big. It's just different and doesn't correspond to the ideas of most people here.
In the past, criminals, sailors or fringe groups had tattoos. Today it's almost unusual not to have one.
Joh I see it as you. This is a risk and should care about but if the society would be open for wearing a chastity belt it would also a lower step for children to get help if the are forced to wear one. It would a topic all would talk openly about what would be ok and what not.
Here in Germany, for example, most children and young people know what the legal situation is regarding sex. It would then be the same.
That is why I said awareness and enforcement matter. Still, I believe there would still be many dependents who are put into chastity against their will, but who do not reach out to authorities because they still love their parents or live an otherwise comfortable life.
bdsamm
I also lock my front door every time I leave. Everyone does that here, with a few exceptions. We also have some cases of rape here, some with murder. However, there are so few cases that there is no broad majority for a chastity belt as protection. The question is also what is the relationship between the number of cases in daily life and the restrictions.
Of course, it is up to each individual to decide which measures to take. Self-defence is certainly also an option, as is travelling in groups. I think a greater presence of police or guards is what can help too.
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Joh Women should be just as good as men in a male-dominated system
The problem is feminists have assumed that anything that sounds feminine is bad.
They have tried to dismantle the traditional society that, in general, gave women and men more facilities to develop, because each one had a field where they fit.
I see it a bit similar to what they want to do now with women's sport.
Of course the society needed adjustments, but it was a good society. When someone has a problem with a faucet in their house, they change the faucet, they do not demolish the house to build another one.
Joh This is a risk and should care about but if the society would be open for wearing a chastity belt it would also a lower step for children to get help if the are forced to wear on
i agree with the rest of your posts here in the topic, but i would clearly disagree here. i even see the risk that these children would get less help. if chastity belts were widely normal, authorities could say "don't get in trouble for such a small thing" or similar. the "shock effect" would be completely gone, a teenager in a chastity belt would no longer be abnormal and would not get such high attention.
it could even go so far that it is seen as similar to parents forcing their children to wear a bicycle helmet, i.e. that there is social support for it.
I would believe it would end up in the same category as spankings. Technically illegal, with popular opinion ranging from horrified to "permissible in extreme situations" in most of the population, but also some people who think regular harsh discipline is the one true way to bring up children, regardless of what the law says.
youdontknowme but also some people who think regular harsh discipline is the one true way to bring up children, regardless of what the law says.
that's right and i'll just say that spanking is socially more accepted than a chastity belt because many think that's how young people learn discipline. if it were the same with chastity belts, there would be more instances of forced chastity
Angelina Sorry, you ignore our law situation.
Our German law make it clear the sexual development is important and in the hand of everyone themselves.
$1631 (2) Children have a right to an upbringing free of violence. Physical punishments, psychological injuries and other degrading measures are inadmissible.
For me is this a clear indication forcing your children wearing a CB is a degrading measure.
I think that if the law clearly regulated the conditions under which children are allowed to wear a CB, it would hardly be possible to force them to do so. Everyone would be aware that it is most likely not okay if one of them would wear it.
Joh There are also laws against violence, and in some areas, people still believe in regular spankings and use them with impunity.
youdontknowme There are also laws against violence, and in some areas, people still believe in regular spankings and use them with impunity.
Yes, and it shows that the society ignore this fact. Some more other less.
If we break it down to the essentials, only when we are all committed and feel responsible will such things hardly ever happen.
Unfortunately, there will always be such things as violence against children, including their deaths.
