How do you raise your children?

youdontknowme

Avery Cops seemed to take a relaxed view, busting men who tried to set up as pimps but not these women who had nothing except their bodies.

That is actually how it works in most of Europe - in some places, like Germany, prostitution is legal but pimping most definitely is not. On others, for example Sweden, there are laws against prostitution, but they criminalize then johns, not the hookers. Because the primary reason for banning prostitution is how vulnerable prostitutes are to abuse, and it is hard to call a law just when it punishes the victims.

Speaking of bodies though, why is it that sex work is commonly referred to as "selling one's body", but back-breaking labor and hazardous jobs are not?

Avery

youdontknowme Speaking of bodies though, why is it that sex work is commonly referred to as "selling one's body", but back-breaking labor and hazardous jobs are not?

Men who need money to support their families often seek out risky/hard jobs because the money is better, cops, firemen, construction, etc. A better question might be why is it OK for a man to sell his body doing hard labor but a woman cannot sell her body (some places) to earn a living as a sex worker.

bdsamm

Avery obviously you are in a liberal state. In some states, the cops spend half their time busting prostitutes. As your Patriots Owner found out down in Florida. Don't know how Kraft came out on that but it was ridiculous. Here they keep after the massage parlors but more or less as a sideline.

Angelina

Avery

you have impressive willpower if you can do it like that, i don't think i would be able to do it like that. if i wanted to wear a belt voluntarily and my goal was absolute chastity, then i would need a key holder and yes also supervised showers, otherwise i probably wouldn't be able to control myself

Ines Well, you could have timed showers.

well, how much time do i need for a shower and how much for an orgasm? i can't say exactly either, so that's out of the question

C-B just a quick summary (it is not existing here) when it was mentioned.

well, i have to choose my clothes so that i hide the belt (or other devices) well, that can be hard in summer

Avery

Angelina you have impressive willpower if you can do it like that, i don't think i would be able to do it like that. if i wanted to wear a belt voluntarily and my goal was absolute chastity, then i would need a key holder and yes also supervised showers, otherwise i probably wouldn't be able to control myself

I'm beginning to feel like I've had enough of it. Not that I'll start fooling around with boys. People may recall I've talked about running against the Mormon girls from BYU and the strict life demanded by their church and never a mention of belts. Just this past week I listened to a youtube short by a Mormon girl who was talking to her pastor, or whatever they call it, and he told her if she limited herself to masturbating once a week that would probably be OK. So I don't know. I am breaking my own rule that God gave us the body and the means to enjoy it, so to say you can't is heresy.

bdsamm

Avery I think what you are doing is wonderful. But I do think one masturbation a week would not really be that much of a variation. I personally think you should continue to the extent you can with your running and other activities.
Being the dirty old man though I think you should lock the belt on at night and put the key in a kitchen timer safe set for at least 8 hours. That way you can relax and know you are safe. (just kidding) My device has a timer function built in. Really convenient.

Mr-TM

Avery I have no lover

And how about if you had one?

Avery

Mr-TM And how about if you had one?

If by lover one means a person with whom I had a serious emotional connection I would first have to give up giving up masturbation because I would certainly fantasize about him. Then at some point, probably sooner, rather than later, begin a sexual relationship. That has always been the plan and I have articulated it before.

All of this is related to how I was brought up. That is the family model.

Avery

bdsamm But I do think one masturbation a week would not really be that much of a variation.

I don't know. I've produced some real toe curlers i my time.

bdsamm

Avery It is mean of you to make that statement where men in chastity devices will read it. Makes the thing a little uncomfortable. But I suppose that was your intent.

Avery

bdsamm It is mean of you to make that statement where men in chastity devices will read it. Makes the thing a little uncomfortable. But I suppose that was your intent.

It was not my intent. It was supposed to be a joke between the two of us. I'm sorry if it affected people badly.

bdsamm

Avery LOL! I am just kidding you. There was an effect but nothing really undesirable.

Avery

bdsamm LOL! I am just kidding you. There was an effect but nothing really undesirable.

Good. You had me worried.

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