Single again chastity

Sara2001 But what if you find a perfect partner who is exactly how you ever dreamed, except that he wants you to stay belted? Would you do it out of love for him? Consensually, but once you have agreed to it, you wouldn't have access to the key except for emergencies.

I have wondered it just feels so sad that your sister seemed to have met the right person only to break up without any announcement.

Well if that happened to me we would just make a joke of it by unlocking me every 5 minutes.

Angelina i'm just thinking about how a situation would develop if my father demanded that camryn keep me in the belt after the wedding, sounds scary

That would be a comedy skit I don't know what the punchline would be probably oops I accidentally unlocked my wife.

Megan I have wondered it just feels so sad that your sister seemed to have met the right person only to break up without any announcement.

Just give her a some more time. It wasn't her fault.

Megan Well if that happened to me we would just make a joke of it by unlocking me every 5 minutes.

Yes, most people are not that kind of person

Megan That would be a comedy skit I don't know what the punchline would be probably oops I accidentally unlocked my wife.

Yes, this couldn't work. An unwilling keyholder who just do it because the wearer's parents want it sounds like fantasy for me.

Christine She wants me to keep wearing, even if I get married, my future husband should take care.

If you plan to live a virtuous life, why not stay belted as she asks until marriage, and then leave the decision to your husband?

(Yes, six months as a keyholder have changed me!)

Christine I doubt he could be perfect with such demands.

would you reject the man of your dreams for that reason?

Megan That would be a comedy skit I don't know what the punchline would be probably oops I accidentally unlocked my wife.

let's see if chuck lorre has time to produce it

Sara2001 Yes, this couldn't work. An unwilling keyholder who just do it because the wearer's parents want it sounds like fantasy for me.

of course,let's say my father demanded it, how would he be able to enforce it? totally impossible

Saintprudence

sorry off topic but nice to have you back, i was thinking of Goody and you a few days ago

Angelina sorry off topic but nice to have you back, i was thinking of Goody and you a few days ago

Thank you! I’ve been lurking all along but the influx of the weird and creepy fantasy people was really putting me off. But I guess I couldn’t stay quiet forever; I’ll just ignore the ones who are writing their own porn and try not to get freaked out. (Here’s a hint, newcomers: we actually do have a fantasy section for that!)

My whole concept of chastity is sort of fluid right now so I’m just rolling with it . There’s a part of me that’s more pro-belting than I used to be so I’m just letting it out a bit!

Saintprudence

That sounds great, I'm glad you're doing well. I hope to update you soon on how your "role reversal" is working.

Saintprudence My whole concept of chastity is sort of fluid right now so I’m just rolling with it . There’s a part of me that’s more pro-belting than I used to be so I’m just letting it out a bit!

Great you are back and please, let us know what is going on in your life.

Sara2001 Just give her a some more time. It wasn't her fault.

Did I miss it or are you talking about your sister's former boyfriend about a year ago?

Joh one reason I’m having a hard time describing it is that my opinions are in flux. I’ve really been examining my beliefs and who I think I am, but also trying to figure myself out.

For instance, keeping Goody belted has started to reinforce the idea in me that masturbation really is a sin and should be prohibited. There’s an authoritarian side of me that looks at people like Christine and actually approves of her staying belted until marriage. I can’t quite tell if that’s really coming from me or from my upbringing, but it feels more and more natural to encourage adults to stay belted. (I’m one million percent against use by or on anyone who’s not an adult, and the fantasies being spun on this forum by people who seem WAY too into the idea was really freaking me out, hence my long silence.)

Saintprudence one reason I’m having a hard time describing it is that my opinions are in flux. I’ve really been examining my beliefs and who I think I am, but also trying to figure myself out.

Yes, this a difficult task and needs time and patience.
How is Goody doing in her belt and has it change her view and behaviour?
Is she still happy with your progress?

Saintprudence I’m one million percent against use by or on anyone who’s not an adult, and the fantasies being spun on this forum by people who seem WAY too into the idea was really freaking me out

The same is true for me, and that is one of the reasons why I try to talk sense into people or they leave us.

Laura As I recall, you yourself remain comfortable with the idea of being locked up until marriage as well! Of which I highly approve.

Once one reaches the mental state of “that kind of touch is appropriate only for your married partner,” it’s pretty easy to justify the belt. After all, the only reason to object would be to do something forbidden!

Laura And @Renita too.

But I'm not against it.

Renita indeed, you seem to have a laudable acceptance of what it takes to live a thoroughly virtuous life.

Joh Did I miss it or are you talking about your sister's former boyfriend about a year ago?

Yes, she hasn't done anything wrong. He quitted for his own (understandable but unfair and egoistic) reasons.

Sara2001 Thanks.

Saintprudence why not stay belted as she asks until marriage, and then leave the decision to your husband?

Coz she can convince him.

Angelina would you reject the man of your dreams for that reason?

No, but it could be a nightmare.

Saintprudence looks at people like Christine and actually approves of her staying belted until marriage

It's nothing, but craziness. What lets you think so?

Christine Coz she can convince him.

Would that be so bad?

Christine It's nothing, but craziness. What lets you think so?

I was raised extremely Catholic to believe that masturbation and any sexual contact outside of marriage are sins. And I’m getting back in touch with the Catholic side of myself. And from that perspective, belting makes sense if you have no business letting anyone but your partner have contact there, yourself included.

On some level I think you agree, since you still wear the belt.

Christine My own mother would have all kinds of harsh words for you being divorced. (My mother was Catholic and not very nice. If she was still alive, I don’t know if we’d be speaking.) My mother-in-law, also Catholic, is nicer but even more devout than she was. Mother-in-law would urge you to stay belted on general principle; she’s a big fan of women accepting husbands as lawful biblical authority.

And I’m going to be honest, having had a taste of all sides, I can understand the appeal of both the peace of accepting authority and the confidence of wielding it.

Laura That's the goal

It would appear that at least for the moment, I’m the chastity evangelist you’ve always wanted here! My therapist has suggested that in my quest to reconcile the dominant and submissive parts of my personality, I let the dominant side out a bit more and see how it feels to let her do the talking, so to speak. I’ve never actually straight-up told someone “yes, you’re belted and it’s right that you should stay that way.” I wasn’t sure how it would feel and I’m still not certain, but it’s an interesting feeling to say the least.