Single again chastity
Angelina but i think she must have known from the beginning that it can change if you move out, right?
She did, but keeps changing her mind.
Vanessa What else?
Credit score.
Vanessa Finding you own place?
Yes, in a good place.
Vanessa Can you give your opinion,or is it useless?
She doesn't hear me.
Vanessa Breaking your relationship with her/your family.
I don't care.
Vanessa What do you think she would decide?
Will get used to my decision.
if you need a break make it happen. If it's time to stop I'll cheer you for stopping
Christine Credit score.
I know credit score (or credit rating) as the trustworthiness for getting a loan, like when you want to buy a house they want to check if you're likely to be paying it off. Normally if you would rent a small apartment, or even a room with a landlord/-lady, it wouldn't be checked, would it? I don't think they are even allowed to here, only banks can.
Or do you mean you built up debt on a credit card and first need to pay that off? Perhaps not, since the solution for that would also be trying to get a better paying job, although it will take longer then until you can move out.
Angelina why is Enderman expand dong
Christine She did, but keeps changing her mind.
not good, in general key holders should not change their mind too often. i really hope things will get better for you soon, at the moment you seem very unhappy 
Christine Will get used to my decision.
if she gets used to it, she will probably be able to forgive you, so go ahead. get a job, your own flat and live in freedom again. 
bonzibuddy why is Enderman expand dong
because tree
Laura It would in the US
Hmm, I would consider it a big invasion of my privacy if just anyone could check the health of my finances at any time.
But I certainly believe that privacy legislation is stronger in (western?) Europe than in the US.
If the Proof of Income only shows that you have a high-enough regular income, and not exactly how much, that would feel a bit different for me, also because if it is asked, I can still decide if I want to share that info, and with whom. That would seem more balanced between my privacy and their need for financial security.
Angelina i don't really understand the discussion. when you rent a flat or a house, the landlord usually asks for proof of income to check that you earn enough money to finance the flat, is that different anywhere else?
In the US, at least where I am, they ask for proof of income, proof of who you are, a security deposit in case you skip out or cause damages and the first payment must be drawn on a bank, not on your personal account, to make sure the payment is good.
Was it the effect you hoped for,or a side-effect?
If it is an unexpected side effect,do you like it or not?
Probably,yes.
In your case,would it not be the case?
Christine She did, but keeps changing her mind
Any chance she changes her mind again and agree you would not have to wear it after you move out?
Christine She doesn't hear me.
Too bad!
Christine I don't care.
So no problem,you could stop wearing it right after you move out,anyway.
Angelina get a job, your own flat and live in freedom again.
Harder to do than to say.
Avery they ask for proof of income, proof of who you are, a security deposit in case you skip out or cause damages and the first payment must be drawn on a bank, not on your personal account
Similar in France,except we can pay the first month from our account.
Vanessa Similar in France,except we can pay the first month from our account.
I didn't realize you were in France. No wonder you mentioned my few French phrases, I looked you up in the intro thread. You've been here a long time, since the beginning. I only just started reading some of the intros.
carg I was just surprised that Laura said that a landlord could also check your credit score.
In my experience, he only does this if there is a later purchase option for the property.
Vanessa Probably,yes.
sounds scary, i think i would have "quit" my father at the age of 40 at the latest
Vanessa In your case,would it not be the case?
probably not, but it would probably end at some point anyway. the probability of my father living longer than me is very low, but i think we would find a solution at some point.
Vanessa Harder to do than to say.
of course, but the question is what is sexual freedom worth?
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Angelina at the moment you seem very unhappy
I just feel myself stuck forever.
Angelina o go ahead. get a job, your own flat and live in freedom again
Sounds like a plan.
Vanessa Any chance she changes her mind again and agree you would not have to wear it after you move out?
I doubt, but if she wishes she should try wearing herself first.
Vanessa you could stop wearing it right after you move out
Immediately.
Rina I think there are many services you can use to get boost in credit score
And more money.
then do whatever you can do. in case of emergency, do a new apprenticeship or study or look for a job for the transition, talk to your mother about your future and that you are unhappy with the current situation. i strongly believe that you can do all this, but you have to want it and start as soon as possible.