Jen No I'm ok with the frustration.
When I write about frustration, I mean not only the lack of sexual satisfaction, but also all the negative mental experiences associated with wearing the belt.
It's more than that it's like two things it's access to my own body - part of me! - it's off limits. Like it's hard to not feel like I'm less than everyone because of it.
It seems to me that it will be best if you treat the chastity belt a bit like medical aids such as a collar or a back brace. These devices also limit access to the body and its mobility, are uncomfortable, but they are worn for a specific reason. They also do not make the wearer "inferior". Similarly, you wear a belt to protect you from undesirable behavior and you are no worse than others for it.
And also just being with a guy - I want to know what it's like - like it's this experience people have and I don't - I want to know. It'd be easier if everyone was in chastity.
There is, unfortunately, a contradiction between "serious" wearing a chastity belt and having sex. Being maiden you can't combine these two issues, you have to choose either one or the other. If the belt fascinates you, but you want to have sex, use it when you have a permanent sexual partner.