Christine Why? Remember that her idea was "brilliant".

Have tons of brilliant ideas too. No clue why I often fail at the execution x)

There are special dynamics between parents and partners or best friends. A few things don't need a conversation.

Guess for most of us, our underwear is something really private. Doubt not many get the idea to show it off on their body at Family gatherings. 😉

Just glad you were fine with it and don't have to avoid family members for the next decades 🤗

      KarimM Did you lower your lower clothes?

      No, coz I worn the waist style belt.

      Zoe Just glad you were fine with it and don't have to avoid family members for the next decades

      Family members got disappointed since I stop wearing a belt.

      MissBlossom Congrats!

      Thank you.

              Christine Family members got disappointed since I stop wearing a belt.

              🤣 Did you tell them, they can borrow it now?

                  Christine I expect she doesn't show off her own chastity belt to the relatives

                  I hope to have this chance.

                  Well, I expect you will get this chance. Even if she refuses to show her waist band the fact that you asked will inform anyone present that she's wearing. Goodness! You really are turning the tables here.

                  Christine Sometimes I want to urge you to return back into the belt

                  I might have to, coz I have a boyfriend.

                  Am so happy for you! But, if you really want to avoid having sex too early, you should restart wearing your belt right now. I wonder whether your experience with chastity has changed your views on sex before marriage in any way?

                        Zoe Just glad you were fine with it and don't have to avoid family members for the next decades 🤗

                        You avoid family meetings, because some can notice your belt?

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                            Markus You avoid family meetings, because some can notice your belt?

                            Nope. I got more secure with wearing the belt outside and learned how to dress to avoid flashing it. Just when i did something stupid and have to wear the thighbands as well, I am still not comfortable going out.

                            In Christines case everyone was told and shown that she is wearing a cb. Friends you can avoid. Family not so much.

                            Imagine sitting at your grandpas birthday party and your aunty casualy asking if you are still wearing it. Or everyone staring at your crotch trying to figure it out without asking.

                            While one of best friends probably would just ask, if they want to touch it, i would just try to get out of there as fast as i can 🙂

                                Zoe Did you tell them, they can borrow it now?

                                No, these belts are mine. They should order their own for their women.

                                Jonas Even if she refuses to show her waist band the fact that you asked will inform anyone present that she's wearing.

                                But I will ask her consent first, if she is OK how her brilliant idea works in her case or she likes to keep it in secret.

                                Jonas I wonder whether your experience with chastity has changed your views on sex before marriage in any way?

                                Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

                                        Christine But I will ask her consent first, if she is OK how her brilliant idea works in her case or she likes to keep it in secret.

                                        I'm still impressed at how maturely you handle the whole situation. I think many people in your shoes would be tempted by a desire to get some revenge, but you manage to keep making ethical and respectful decisions.

                                        Christine Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

                                        Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again? If so, do you plan to negotiate for breaks this time?

                                              MissBlossom I'm still impressed at how maturely you handle the whole situation. I think many people in your shoes would be tempted by a desire to get some revenge, but you manage to keep making ethical and respectful decisions.

                                              I agree. I too would expect an element revenge, but @Christine is consistently and firmly, fair. It's amazing.

                                              MissBlossom Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again?

                                              The million dollar question. Is it fair for them both to refrain from pre-marital sex, but for only one to wear a belt to enforce it?

                                                  Very interesting accounts may pass this on to my girls so they could reveal to their friends,

                                                  Christine I might have to, coz I have a boyfriend.

                                                  congratulations 😃

                                                  Christine Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

                                                  that's right, may i ask if you have already had sex? would you (have to) wear a belt again yourself?

                                                        Zoe I got more secure with wearing the belt outside

                                                        A friend of mine who used to joke with women was charged with rape. A woman took offence at his joke.
                                                        Somehow the belt is also an insurance against such suspiciousness.

                                                          Renita Might? You should have it on already.

                                                          Agreed. Christine accepts masturbation as morally okay, so i reluctantly accept she doesn’t need the belt, but if she is dating, she should be kept locked as long as she is spending unsupervised time with him.

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                                                            MissBlossom Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again?

                                                            I have no choice, coz she has to keys to my belts.

                                                            MissBlossom If so, do you plan to negotiate for breaks this time?

                                                            I'm not going to wear 24/7. Only occasionally.

                                                            Angelina may i ask if you have already had sex?

                                                            Not yet.

                                                            Renita You should have it on already

                                                            Let me decide.

                                                                      A few people know but I'm making is seem a toy nothing serious - so not wearing it out so much - don't wanna become the chastity belt girl

                                                                      Angelina She's not, but since her mother possesses the only keys to the belt, she can't go back into it without her mother's involvement. It's not possible to just put it on and give someone else the keys unless mom agrees to it.