Sabina thread

Renita So you wanted to protect your virginity only, but received full chastity instead?

Before I start wearing belt 'permanently' Mum warn me, that it will be full chastity, and masturbation will be forbiden. I agreed, but sometimes I regret it

Renita What kind of punishment?

Punishments are not defined in advance. I was punished only once. I was stupid and admitted to my mother that I had struggled with the belt at night and tried to get my fingers under it (it worked, but I couldn't masturbate). As punishment, I spent every night in locked bondage mitts for a month. I haven't confessed to anything since then.

Renita Do you use any other accessory beside secondary shield?

No.

Laura I agreed because I was a bit fascinated by living chaste, but I didn't think it would be so difficult for me. Once masturbation was not a particularly high value for me, only the lack of it made me realize how much I want it.

Laura What was your mom's rationale?

Rationale is simple. In terms of virginity - my mother doesn't really want me to get pregnant before graduation (so I will wear the belt for at least 2 more years) or waste time and energy on closer relationships with boys. Of course, there is such a thing as contraception, but my mother has very limited confidence in it for personal reasons - her sister got pregnant despite using it. As for masturbation. Mom believes that masturbation is an immature, incomplete form of gratification. That's why it was forbidden for my father in the first place, and - since I choose to wear the belt - it is also forbidden for me, at least officially.

Laura I suspect they consider her chastity belt as another BDSM item

For them, the belt is just a BDSM toy, but it may have additional uses depending on the context. For me too.

Angelina well, she forbids masturbation but has no real option to enforce it, seems kind of unserious to me. somehow i think it's all about control your mother likes to have and you like to be controlled by her right?

You could say.

Angelina somehow you are doing exactly what some here have accused me of, you seem to be living in a BDSM relationship with your mother

Seeing the intensity of the BDSM relationship between my parents, I would never call my relationship with my mother that, but I understand that it can give that impression.

Renita Instead thighbands, that should be used in this case.

I didn't have thighbands, mitts were immediately available, hence the choice of my mother.

Renita Chastity should be stricter than BDSM.

Thank you for advices, but at times my chastity is even too strict for me, so I don't want nothing stricter...

Angelina I just confirmed that your argument is correct, because I took your question as purely rhetorical. I translated it with a translator, so it may not give the full meaning of my words in Polish.

The prohibition itself and the severity of its enforcement are sometimes two different things. I have the impression that my mother also wanted a certain consistency of rules and the lack of additional permissions for me.