Ines

I agree too.Your feelings about chastity belt are probably closely related to the way it is used in your family,way different than it is for several of us.And it needs parents to consider chastity belts,and the best way to use it,differently.

I'm sure that my parents worry and care for me too,but they have very different opinion about how a chastity belt should be used than your parents.

I guess with two daughters belted at home,it needs even more time and patience!😉

Sara2001

It is similar for me too,the security is the main concern,especially as they noticed my chastity belt doens't prevent me to do a lot of my usual activities.Except sexual ones,of course.If I was prevented to do a sport,for example,while I liked it a lot,I think I would have been able to convince them to let me free doing it,but closely monitored,however.But it would have been hard to convince them and not for too many things.

Angelina better slowly than not at all or ? 😉

Sure,it is better to get it,even slowly!

Angelina yes the tighbands are very bad, which is due to the physical limitations. the cb and the bra strict mostly only when i get horny but the tighbands are always present 🙁

Each of these devices have their worst parts,and the ones we hate the most can depend on our mood and activities...

    Vanessa

    not really, the tighbands are by far the worst 🙁 i have maybe 2-3 times a day sexual lust and am prevented from cb and bra to live it 🙁 but i feel the tighbands persist, especially bad if you are in a hurry and can not run fast 🙁

      Angelina

      I agree thigh bands are more limiting and can be frustrating in non-sewual ways too.But,when I've urges and my chastity belt prevents me to relieve these,or when I'm intimate with Emilie and she can't touch me between my legs or on my breasts,I hate much more the chastity belt and chastity bra!

        Vanessa

        as you already say, when i have sexual urge it is of course in the belt and bra much worse, but in normal everyday life the tighbands are the worst 🙁

        we shouldn't think about sex all the time 😉

          Angelina

          I tend to think about it a lot! 😉

          But,too,I don't have to wear the thigh bands as often as you,it should be very hard to have them on permanently.Even more when wearing it to go out.

            Vanessa But,too,I don't have to wear the thigh bands as often as you,it should be very hard to have them on permanently.Even more when wearing it to go out.

            I can guarantee you that. It is something you never forget. I feel the presence of them all the time and my feelings changed a bit. It is still very limiting and I still hate the limits a lot. Especially when I am in a hurry, but the psychological aspects are more important for me now. I feel very humiliated all the time and started to cry a lot about them/my situation often. Maybe I thought about the arguments from my sister. She feels very trapped in them.

              Sara2001
              😕.
              I feel sorry to read that.
              When you do not have positive feedback of the belt it should be horrible.
              Maybe, even respecting your submissive role : could you talk with your parents?
              The feeling about belt is very bad from your part, and maybe for that you see it as something humiliating.
              I can understand a lot of bad thinkings about belts, even if I do not share those thinkings, but when some of you see it as humiliating I can not understand.
              In fact I do not like at all ready such things because when you see as humiliating to wear a belt make feel very pity.
              In my opinion a belt, or bands can be restrictive, exhausting, frustrating all those things I can understand.
              But feel it as humiliating make me see how bad you have to feel everyday.

              PS. 10 minutes and I enter in the test.

                @Vanessa

                the most difficult thing is to wear the tighbands outside, you haven't had this experience yet, so you probably think a little differently 😉

                @Sara2001

                i feel exactly the same 🙁 it is very restrictive and always present, it just feels bad, i feel tied up and humiliated. i can imagine how hard it is for your sister when i had the tighbands new, it was the hardest experience of my life and i still feel very bad about it 🙁

                @Ines

                with sara and with me the family circumstances are completely different than with you, therefore our feelings towards the cb and the tighbands are clearly more negative than your feelings.

                  Ines When you do not have positive feedback of the belt it should be horrible.

                  It is. The tightbands more then the cb.

                  Ines Maybe, even respecting your submissive role : could you talk with your parents?

                  Of course I can. But my father has a strong position about female sexuality. Not before marriage and better after marriage under strict male control. No exceptions. Ensuring this is a top priority.

                  Ines The feeling about belt is very bad from your part, and maybe for that you see it as something humiliating.

                  I don't think how someone could think in a different way 🙂. Even if I wear it out of my own choice I would feel extremely humiliated if someone will notice it.

                  At least in the society I live, nobody thinks that it is a normal think. The best I can expect is that they only think that I am a freak.

                  Angelina the most difficult thing is to wear the tighbands outside, you haven't had this experience yet, so you probably think a little differently 😉

                  Definitely, especially longer distances. I also hate the feeling of not being able to take a bike for longer distances.

                  Angelina i had the tighbands new, it was the hardest experience of my life and i still feel very bad about it 🙁

                  I don't think it's getting much better 🙁

                    Ines PS. 10 minutes and I enter in the test.

                    Good luck. I hope everything worked well.

                    • Ines replied to this.

                      Sara2001 I don't think how someone could think in a different way 🙂. Even if I wear it out of my own choice I would feel extremely humiliated if someone will notice it.

                      At least in the society I live, nobody thinks that it is a normal think. The best I can expect is that they only think that I am a freak.

                      In my society is not common at all, but something not common it is not humiliating.
                      The freak component is something that I have in my mind, specially seeing some experience of my sister.

                      Sara2001

                      that's exactly what i think, most people i know wouldn't think of it as normal or ok if i presented the belt or the tighbands freely 🙁

                      and yes it is definitely very hard, I can fully understand your situation and unfortunately feel the same 🙁

                      i wish i could encourage you, since you wear the tighbands also 24/7, you seem to have developed quite a hate against it, which is understandable. i would like to help you, but i have no better experiences than you, it is really very bad 🙁

                        Angelina i wish i could encourage you, since you wear the tighbands also 24/7, you seem to have developed quite a hate against it, which is understandable. i would like to help you, but i have no better experiences than you, it is really very bad 🙁

                        Thank you very much. It's still very helpful to talk with others in a similar situation. 🙂 I hope, the days are not to bad for you, too. I think you can be very lucky that you don't have to walk to school with your tightbands.

                          Sara2001

                          luckily my father drives me 🙂

                          but unfortunately I have to cover some distances in school 🙁

                          Sara2001

                          Is it even harder for you than at the start?

                          Sorry you,and yiur sister crie soften due to it.

                          Ines

                          I understand @Sara2001's feelings,as I feel wearing a chastity belt is very humiliating.It can be very diffrent for you,as you agree with it,however.

                          Angelina the most difficult thing is to wear the tighbands outside, you haven't had this experience yet, so you probably think a little differently 😉

                          Yes,I guess it plays a good part on it.It is probably very awful to wear it outside too.

                          Sara2001 Of course I can. But my father has a strong position about female sexuality. Not before marriage and better after marriage under strict male control. No exceptions. Ensuring this is a top priority.

                          So you can talk with them,but it would be useless,right?

                          Angelina that's exactly what i think, most people i know wouldn't think of it as normal or ok if i presented the belt or the tighbands freely 🙁

                          Same for me.

                          Angelina and yes it is definitely very hard, I can fully understand your situation and unfortunately feel the same 🙁

                          i wish i could encourage you, since you wear the tighbands also 24/7, you seem to have developed quite a hate against it, which is understandable. i would like to help you, but i have no better experiences than you, it is really very bad 🙁

                          It seems it is very hard to manage a permanent wearing of thigh bands,maybe even harder than the chastity belt...

                            Vanessa Is it even harder for you than at the start?

                            It was very hard in the beginning, but I had the idea that I will get used to it and it will get better but now I know this is not the case.

                            Vanessa So you can talk with them,but it would be useless,right?

                            As long as I am not in danger, most probably yes.

                            Vanessa It seems it is very hard to manage a permanent wearing of thigh bands,maybe even harder than the chastity belt...

                            Definitely a lot harder. When I only had the tightbands from dinner to 6am and not during the day, the difference was like day and night.

                              Sara2001

                              I also thought in the beginning that I could accept the tighbands, but I can't.

                              i would give a lot for wearing the tighbands only at night but that is unfortunately not possible 🙁

                              i know that it is very hard and hope that you feel better with the tighbands than i do, but i fear you feel just as i badly

                                Sara2001 It was very hard in the beginning, but I had the idea that I will get used to it and it will get better but now I know this is not the case.

                                Very sorry for you(and your sister).🙁

                                Sara2001 As long as I am not in danger, most probably yes.

                                Too bad.I hope your husband would be more open to change his mind,if you have good arguments.

                                Sara2001 Definitely a lot harder. When I only had the tightbands from dinner to 6am and not during the day, the difference was like day and night.

                                Wearing it part time is a bit like I've to do when alone at home(except I may have to wear these mostly during the day,and you,during the night).But I imagine it is different when wearing these permanently,and especially when you have to go out with it on,almost every day...

                                Angelina I also thought in the beginning that I could accept the tighbands, but I can't.

                                Very sorry for you too!🙁

                                Angelina i would give a lot for wearing the tighbands only at night but that is unfortunately not possible 🙁

                                Maybe in the future...

                                Angelina i know that it is very hard and hope that you feel better with the tighbands than i do, but i fear you feel just as i badly

                                So,I guess it is always as bad as I feel it when I'm punished by wearing these permanently?I'm glad they don't want me to wear these permanently!

                                  Vanessa Too bad.I hope your husband would be more open to change his mind,if you have good arguments.

                                  Luckily my possible husband doesn't want to keep me in tightbands. Just the chastity belt.