Everyday challenges with thigh bands

Vanessa But,too,I don't have to wear the thigh bands as often as you,it should be very hard to have them on permanently.Even more when wearing it to go out.

I can guarantee you that. It is something you never forget. I feel the presence of them all the time and my feelings changed a bit. It is still very limiting and I still hate the limits a lot. Especially when I am in a hurry, but the psychological aspects are more important for me now. I feel very humiliated all the time and started to cry a lot about them/my situation often. Maybe I thought about the arguments from my sister. She feels very trapped in them.

Sara2001
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I feel sorry to read that.
When you do not have positive feedback of the belt it should be horrible.
Maybe, even respecting your submissive role : could you talk with your parents?
The feeling about belt is very bad from your part, and maybe for that you see it as something humiliating.
I can understand a lot of bad thinkings about belts, even if I do not share those thinkings, but when some of you see it as humiliating I can not understand.
In fact I do not like at all ready such things because when you see as humiliating to wear a belt make feel very pity.
In my opinion a belt, or bands can be restrictive, exhausting, frustrating all those things I can understand.
But feel it as humiliating make me see how bad you have to feel everyday.

PS. 10 minutes and I enter in the test.

@Vanessa

the most difficult thing is to wear the tighbands outside, you haven't had this experience yet, so you probably think a little differently

@Sara2001

i feel exactly the same it is very restrictive and always present, it just feels bad, i feel tied up and humiliated. i can imagine how hard it is for your sister when i had the tighbands new, it was the hardest experience of my life and i still feel very bad about it

@Ines

with sara and with me the family circumstances are completely different than with you, therefore our feelings towards the cb and the tighbands are clearly more negative than your feelings.

Ines When you do not have positive feedback of the belt it should be horrible.

It is. The tightbands more then the cb.

Ines Maybe, even respecting your submissive role : could you talk with your parents?

Of course I can. But my father has a strong position about female sexuality. Not before marriage and better after marriage under strict male control. No exceptions. Ensuring this is a top priority.

Ines The feeling about belt is very bad from your part, and maybe for that you see it as something humiliating.

I don't think how someone could think in a different way . Even if I wear it out of my own choice I would feel extremely humiliated if someone will notice it.

At least in the society I live, nobody thinks that it is a normal think. The best I can expect is that they only think that I am a freak.

Angelina the most difficult thing is to wear the tighbands outside, you haven't had this experience yet, so you probably think a little differently

Definitely, especially longer distances. I also hate the feeling of not being able to take a bike for longer distances.

Angelina i had the tighbands new, it was the hardest experience of my life and i still feel very bad about it

I don't think it's getting much better

Ines PS. 10 minutes and I enter in the test.

Good luck. I hope everything worked well.

Sara2001 I don't think how someone could think in a different way . Even if I wear it out of my own choice I would feel extremely humiliated if someone will notice it.

At least in the society I live, nobody thinks that it is a normal think. The best I can expect is that they only think that I am a freak.

In my society is not common at all, but something not common it is not humiliating.
The freak component is something that I have in my mind, specially seeing some experience of my sister.

Sara2001 All gone as was planned!

Sara2001

that's exactly what i think, most people i know wouldn't think of it as normal or ok if i presented the belt or the tighbands freely

and yes it is definitely very hard, I can fully understand your situation and unfortunately feel the same

i wish i could encourage you, since you wear the tighbands also 24/7, you seem to have developed quite a hate against it, which is understandable. i would like to help you, but i have no better experiences than you, it is really very bad

Angelina i wish i could encourage you, since you wear the tighbands also 24/7, you seem to have developed quite a hate against it, which is understandable. i would like to help you, but i have no better experiences than you, it is really very bad

Thank you very much. It's still very helpful to talk with others in a similar situation. I hope, the days are not to bad for you, too. I think you can be very lucky that you don't have to walk to school with your tightbands.

Sara2001

luckily my father drives me

but unfortunately I have to cover some distances in school

Vanessa Is it even harder for you than at the start?

It was very hard in the beginning, but I had the idea that I will get used to it and it will get better but now I know this is not the case.

Vanessa So you can talk with them,but it would be useless,right?

As long as I am not in danger, most probably yes.

Vanessa It seems it is very hard to manage a permanent wearing of thigh bands,maybe even harder than the chastity belt...

Definitely a lot harder. When I only had the tightbands from dinner to 6am and not during the day, the difference was like day and night.

Sara2001

I also thought in the beginning that I could accept the tighbands, but I can't.

i would give a lot for wearing the tighbands only at night but that is unfortunately not possible

i know that it is very hard and hope that you feel better with the tighbands than i do, but i fear you feel just as i badly

Sara2001 It was very hard in the beginning, but I had the idea that I will get used to it and it will get better but now I know this is not the case.

Very sorry for you(and your sister).

Sara2001 As long as I am not in danger, most probably yes.

Too bad.I hope your husband would be more open to change his mind,if you have good arguments.

Sara2001 Definitely a lot harder. When I only had the tightbands from dinner to 6am and not during the day, the difference was like day and night.

Wearing it part time is a bit like I've to do when alone at home(except I may have to wear these mostly during the day,and you,during the night).But I imagine it is different when wearing these permanently,and especially when you have to go out with it on,almost every day...

Angelina I also thought in the beginning that I could accept the tighbands, but I can't.

Very sorry for you too!

Angelina i would give a lot for wearing the tighbands only at night but that is unfortunately not possible

Maybe in the future...

Angelina i know that it is very hard and hope that you feel better with the tighbands than i do, but i fear you feel just as i badly

So,I guess it is always as bad as I feel it when I'm punished by wearing these permanently?I'm glad they don't want me to wear these permanently!

Vanessa Too bad.I hope your husband would be more open to change his mind,if you have good arguments.

Luckily my possible husband doesn't want to keep me in tightbands. Just the chastity belt.

@Sara2001

good that Daniel is a little nicer in this regulation than your father

@Vanessa

it may be a little less bad than your punishments because you get used to the tighbands a bit, but still very bad

Sara2001

I think more about discussing rules in general,not only thigh bands.

Angelina good that Daniel is a little nicer in this regulation than your father

I agree,it would be good for her to get rid off thigh bands!

Angelina it may be a little less bad than your punishments because you get used to the tighbands a bit, but still very bad

Is it "easier" to manage wearing a chastity belt than thigh bands(when wearing both permanently)?

Vanessa
I think I can not answer you properly. I wear it almost everyday, but far of 24 hours without exception.

Ines

But,even if not permanently,do you think you can manage it as well as the chastity belt,or it is easier to manage wearing a chastity belt,for you?

Vanessa
Even I like the feeling of security that bands ad, it is true that they are a bit restrictive.
However, I do not left of doing things for that, it is, if I need do something that is hard or impossible to do with bands, I can ask for release, it is a very most soft regime than rest of girls here.
So, really for me is not a real issue. A chain allow me doing almost everything, and even if when I get a bus they can pull me a bit, the rest of things is very bearable.
Wear it, reduce a bit our steps, anyway a polite girl does not run in the street and little steps are nicer, and wear it, forces too our voice of postures to seat, and this sucks.
But even sometimes sucks, and sometimes I feel them restrictive, I can not tell the crue stories of another girls here.