just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?
@Milady2 point of view here:
@Angelina , you should stop wearing as planned and avoid continuing. Get out, talk about this experience with your wife, understand not only what you want but what she wants too. Then, if needed, you can start not as an occasional thing but as lifestyle. before that you need to understand clearly what will bring to you being belted,even in terms of expectations. Maybe it's not what your wife wants, and she should have her own opinion. Definitely I don't think it's a good idea to continue.
End of Milady opinion
Padre Less than two weeks No Touch November is coming. It may bring you new heights
sorry, but at least for november i have ruled out any further use of the belt and bra
NO!
Update:
first of all for information, there will be no voting, everything that happens after locktober my wife and i will discuss privately. you will know the results if there are any, but first i want a normal sex life again
yesterday, unfortunately, i fought a little too hard against the belt. i kind of felt like it (maybe i wanted to provoke something) and of course my wife noticed, so i had to spend a few hours writing lines last night. i also wore the bands again for the first time. just as restrictive as before and i don't want them as standard, but the evening also showed me that my wife can enforce rules if they have been agreed beforehand
Angelina I am with you that you should not follow some pushing from the forum. It is your ligΒ΄fe and both of you will talk about how it was and what you will do in the future. I hope you can take something from this month in terms of wearing the belt and how it has affected your relationship. Perhaps new aspects will emerge.
Angelina I'd guess the fact that this time you are doing it by choice probably plays a significant role.
Angelina Could it really be that I like it?
Your father used it for his own purposes, and it was not in line with your interests and needs. Now it was a shared experience between the two of you and has resulted in a different perspective. So it may well be that it can be an enrichment for your lives. After all, the CB is only a tool.
Angelina Could it really be that I like it?
Honestly, the impression I had of you was always that you liked the belt itself a lot more than the conditions under which you wore it
Angelina Could it really be that I like it?
I think what you like is that your wife is holding the keys now. And I think you may also be considering ways that the belt can enhance your relationship.
Something along the lines of you wonβt get out unless sheβs satisfied beforehand or something like that
Spork If you're new to this sort of dynamic, it can be helpful to let her know afterwards that you enjoyed it and that she did the right thing.
that's kind of it, i take a lot of responsibility when it comes to the things in our lives and i like it when she does too
youdontknowme Honestly, the impression I had of you was always that you liked the belt itself a lot more than the conditions under which you wore it
that's why i've never spoken out against wearing a chastity belt, only i never wanted to myself
Update:
i'm actually only writing an update to separate it from my answers. i'm now on the first metres of the target grade and locktober is coming to an end. i have my mouth and hands well under control, so no more bands. i'm really happy when i've made it and i'm a bit proud of myself and of course of my wife
for the future i can say that i have had a positive experience with the belt, it helps me to conceal what the belt has demanded of me for several years. whether the belt will play a role in the future is still unclear
short update on "Locktober"
the last few days are running, I'm already counting the hours. Yesterday I didn't have myself under control for a moment, or rather my hands weren't under control, so I spent the evening writing lines and in the bands.
In general, I am grateful for the experience. I have now realised that you can have positive feelings about wearing a belt. I don't know what this means for the future yet. My wife and I will discuss this, as I have also discovered a new side of her that I really like. But first I will put the belt and the bra back in a box and have a normal sex life.