Avery I have moved our conversation over to "Belting for Nieces" so as not to incur anyone's wrath.

    Susan You are 100% right. She thinks it is best to wait...

    For you and Jenna I'll explain my post again because otherwise I'm afraid it could be misunderstood. Your boyfriend accepts a long-distance relationship and the chastity belt, that's great, he really seems to love you and if he can continue to accept it well, the relationship will work well in the long term, because then you already know how to deal with difficult situations. @Jenna once wrote that a condition for removing the belt would be that you have a long-term relationship and I think the chances are really good if the relationship continues like this that he will do everything to make it "worth it" (and yes Anyone can criticize my choice of words) to have sex with you (from your aunt's perspective and not right now, but in the not too distant future).

    I'm sorry if my post was unclear

        Avery Angelina spent four years dating the same person before they (after marrying) had the opportunity for a completely unbelted night in bed together. "Not too distant" could easily be over a year in that context.

          Milord why? They are both welcome for me

          An unbelted girl dating a belted boy is not the same as an unbelted boy dating a belted girl.

              Renita
              In a modern world where gender based roles are becoming more and more obsolete, there is not much difference.
              Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

                  Renita I think it may depend to some extent on the type and design of the belts but I think the cases are more alike than they are different. I think you have good ideas and good posts so I am interested to hear why you think they are not the same.

                      Tjc still I want to hear from everyone, and I don’t want to create several threads for all the scenarios. I think they all fit in the same thread. To answer to @Renita too

                        i think in many ways our early sexual activity will help define our overall sexual life. If a woman is not submissive, how will pleasuring a man with no pleasure for herself, effect her later sex life? Will she become independent and control her sex life or will she always give into the demands of the man and in essence just become a life long play thing?

                          toad

                          I try to avoid the "what will happen" scenarios, very hard to know what will happens

                            true enough, but expierience has worth good or bad

                              toad
                              But this is a completely new scenario for me. What I can say is that it in very repressed girls I have known (but never belted) two very different things happens:
                              Some of them get broken, and find a husband / boyfriend that governs them and keep them under their thumb
                              Some get rebellious, a lot of them cut ties with home families, and have an opposite life, either having a lot of sexual relationships or marrying and gives a lot of freedom to their sons and daughters.
                              What I know for sure is that they endure a lot of suffering, and relationships with original parents have been strained.
                              Don’t want to go off topic too much, maybe you should open a thread on the future

                                  no thread needed, it's just a thought

                                  Avery Before Christmas?

                                  @Jenna and @Susan will have to decide that, probably not. I think I've explained my points though

                                      Angelina I think I've explained my points though

                                      Whether or not it was responsible to do so.

                                        curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

                                        Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.

                                            Renita
                                            And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key? Would you accept?

                                                Renita my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens

                                                I think I am old-fashioned, also. I am curious as to why you would ask him to stop wearing. Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom, so you can give him physical pleasure that he cannot give you? If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

                                                    curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

                                                    He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

                                                    curious Would you accept?

                                                    If you meant in general, than yes.

                                                    Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,

                                                    Because men are different.

                                                    Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

                                                    Depends on what for.