Renita
In a modern world where gender based roles are becoming more and more obsolete, there is not much difference.
Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

      Renita I think it may depend to some extent on the type and design of the belts but I think the cases are more alike than they are different. I think you have good ideas and good posts so I am interested to hear why you think they are not the same.

          Tjc still I want to hear from everyone, and I don’t want to create several threads for all the scenarios. I think they all fit in the same thread. To answer to @Renita too

            i think in many ways our early sexual activity will help define our overall sexual life. If a woman is not submissive, how will pleasuring a man with no pleasure for herself, effect her later sex life? Will she become independent and control her sex life or will she always give into the demands of the man and in essence just become a life long play thing?

              toad

              I try to avoid the "what will happen" scenarios, very hard to know what will happens

                true enough, but expierience has worth good or bad

                  toad
                  But this is a completely new scenario for me. What I can say is that it in very repressed girls I have known (but never belted) two very different things happens:
                  Some of them get broken, and find a husband / boyfriend that governs them and keep them under their thumb
                  Some get rebellious, a lot of them cut ties with home families, and have an opposite life, either having a lot of sexual relationships or marrying and gives a lot of freedom to their sons and daughters.
                  What I know for sure is that they endure a lot of suffering, and relationships with original parents have been strained.
                  Don’t want to go off topic too much, maybe you should open a thread on the future

                      no thread needed, it's just a thought

                      Avery Before Christmas?

                      @Jenna and @Susan will have to decide that, probably not. I think I've explained my points though

                          Angelina I think I've explained my points though

                          Whether or not it was responsible to do so.

                            curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

                            Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.

                                Renita
                                And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key? Would you accept?

                                    Renita my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens

                                    I think I am old-fashioned, also. I am curious as to why you would ask him to stop wearing. Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom, so you can give him physical pleasure that he cannot give you? If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

                                        curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

                                        He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

                                        curious Would you accept?

                                        If you meant in general, than yes.

                                        Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,

                                        Because men are different.

                                        Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

                                        Depends on what for.

                                                  Renita He would have to ask my mom about this

                                                  Interesting question for the topic, if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

                                                      curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

                                                      Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

                                                          Tjc chastity belt on a girl doesn’t impact feminity. Moreover it tells about a girl submitted and pure, both characteristics tied to a old fashioned way to see a wife. Some men can find this very appealing
                                                          A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
                                                          It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower. Most women want a men that is strong and confident, master of his own life, “manly”. It’s difficult to transmit this idea if your manhood is caged. Cage is very emasculating
                                                          I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
                                                          explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

                                                              Milord Id want to know why he is wearing it before I form any opinions.
                                                              If he's wearing it against his will I can't hold that against him right? Maybe he just feels its right he wears one. Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.