Milord I do get your viewpoint. Here's the deal though. I've mentioned in passing that during my school years, I only wore the belt during vacations. During the normal days, I used to "waste" a bunch of time on play. This was not daily, but it happened in chunks of a few days, then a week of no issues and then I had feelings again. It might be a bit weird to hear that, but that happens with me. When I mean wasting time, i literally mean like the whole day, all that would run through my mind is dirty thoughts, nothing productive.

Now granted that was during school, I've matured a lot now. A lot more than the last year even. But I do have a feeling I might get into the same mindset as before and spend lots of time doing unproductive things. (I'm not saying playing with yourself is unproductive, but spending a whole day thinking about it is certainly not)

So that's why I sometimes feel it's justified to wear a belt (for me), but in other cases, going months without any substantial touches also isn't something I fancy. I'm partly willing for some aspects, not willing for others. I feel I just need time to properly think about, and bring it forward to my parents. For example, being unbelted while I'm at home might bring back my old tendencies, but frequent releases i feel is the first thing I'll bring up to them.

Also I'm sure there are other ways to make myself not be wasting time on playing, but my belt is comfortable, so I don't mind it, and having a physical barrier helps me personally (i think so atleast, never been unbelted for a long time since 18, so I don't know how I'll be behaving now)

And @Milord your comments are usually very constructive, not annoying for me (atleast the ones you make on my posts). I don't want anyone to get the idea that I'm forced into this. I am not, I also choose to wear it, and I don't mind it much, just the terms and conditions aren't the best right now (they have been improved from the starting, but they need more improvement.)

My situation is a bit of a complicated one I feel. Sorry if I made it even more confusing 😅. Now I feel I should have told all this at the beginning so people don't get the wrong idea.

      Tasha So you could say they surprise me.

      is this perhaps also due to your general behaviour? does good behaviour increase the chances of you getting a break?

      Tasha I suppose I behaved well and cleaned myself pretty good so my mum just let me know that they don't need to be supervised one day. Not sure if something else was also at play here.

      yes, that's what really surprises me, i'm surprised that the monitoring stops when it goes to 24/7 wear, normally i would have thought it was the other way round

      Tasha I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages?

      in germany it is restricted allowed from 14 and unrestricted from 16, but in most countries the laws are there for adults not to have sex with minors under a certain age. i know of no other country where it is a criminal offence for 2 17 year olds to have sex with each other

              Angelina

              Yeah I don't know much about the laws in other countries. The intention behind the POCSO act (which prevents under-age sex) is mainly reduce.. forced sex (not sure if I can use the word here) and teen pregnancies from my understanding.

              Considering a full time belting since 18, I'm meeting 20 now, I can think of only 9-10 reliefs so far. So far I haven't noticed any correlation between my behavior and the frequency of being released. The correlation seems more towards thier mood than my behaviour.

              I was a bit surprised on the showers too, but not quite sure what happened there. I'm not going to discuss it with them regardless.

                  Tasha The times are still not enough I feel. Getting relief once in a few months for 30-90 minutes is a good start for me, but I'll eventually fight for more. Ofcourse others might disagree on relief periods as a whole but I feel I personally deserve them.

                  I would negotiate 1 day belt off at home per month and no supervision.

                  Tasha (I'm not saying playing with yourself is unproductive, but spending a whole day thinking about it is certainly not)

                  It is on you if you do it during the day when you should be productive or in the evening as a reward. I think if you are able to manage a company you are also able to manage yourself.
                  As you see it as not forced you have a good argument for you negotiation. If you bring up all what you told us, it is ok your wear it outside, get a day per month without belt, etc, or you refuse to continue, what will they do than? Best is your parent accept it

                        Joh

                        Joh is right. If you just refuse to belt, what leverage your parents have? You are independent

                            WriterAlexis

                            It's very hard to picture what happens in a different country as far as India, but it seems really weird for me the idea that a parent can really says “since you don't want to wear a chastity belt I will kick you out from home”

                            I mean, unless being belted is socially acceptable (and I'm pretty sure it isn't almost anywhere) it is sufficient just to hint something like that this to colleagues, friends, relatives to destroy the family reputation. Something no-one will want to do, unless of course kicking out from home or doing some very bad action.

                            In my opinion belting parents are in a very weak position, and as soon as the daughter refuse it, they can just accept it. Maybe be unhappy, but that's all.

                            Also, I don't think that since wife, an independent adult, is belted, so the daughters must do the same. A belted wife can decides and get released more or less often, a belted daughter is released much rarely.

                                WriterAlexis I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)

                                But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                                    Laura

                                    But a different situation. I know it's pointless to tell you each time, and I'm just bothering you, but I would really like that you understand how much you are damaging yourself

                                        Milord But a different situation.

                                        Why is it? I'm talking about when I was 19. The situation was pretty similar

                                        Milord that you understand how much you are damaging yourself

                                        Damaging how?

                                              Laura Why is it? I'm talking about when I was 19. The situation was pretty similar

                                              But you are no longer 19, and your situation now is exactly the same. Same situation at different age make different situation

                                              As for damaging, may I answer via mail?

                                                  Milord and your situation now is exactly the same

                                                  No, it's different now

                                                  Milord As for damaging, may I answer via mail?

                                                  As you wish

                                                        Laura No, it's different now

                                                        May I ask in which way? Belted at 19, belted now. Living at home at 19, living at home now. According to what I know of course

                                                            Tasha I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)

                                                            But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                                                            That's the quid pro quo. You get locked by them for an easier life else. perfectly reasonable IMO

                                                                Greatcornbow

                                                                I disagree. This should be provided to a 19yo without having to give personal freedom away (hint: this is how it happens everywhere, and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)