She still needs to live somewhere.
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It's very hard to picture what happens in a different country as far as India, but it seems really weird for me the idea that a parent can really says “since you don't want to wear a chastity belt I will kick you out from home”
I mean, unless being belted is socially acceptable (and I'm pretty sure it isn't almost anywhere) it is sufficient just to hint something like that this to colleagues, friends, relatives to destroy the family reputation. Something no-one will want to do, unless of course kicking out from home or doing some very bad action.
In my opinion belting parents are in a very weak position, and as soon as the daughter refuse it, they can just accept it. Maybe be unhappy, but that's all.
Also, I don't think that since wife, an independent adult, is belted, so the daughters must do the same. A belted wife can decides and get released more or less often, a belted daughter is released much rarely.
WriterAlexis She has her own revenue
WriterAlexis I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)
But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah
Tasha I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)
But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah
That's the quid pro quo. You get locked by them for an easier life else. perfectly reasonable IMO
Greatcornbow I suppose that's one way to look at it
I disagree. This should be provided to a 19yo without having to give personal freedom away (hint: this is how it happens everywhere, and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)
Milord and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)
I doubt that most people who go through these experiences post on Reddit about it, but yeah, the stories will be similar.
Of course, but it is to explain the point. Most abuses are never told, even if I see that something is moving and people start to talk
Tasha But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah
This is a pro on your list and only few releases is the contra. Anyway you are in a good position for a better agreement. You can offer to continue with the belt with more me-time. You decide how often is good and not distracting e.g. ones per month or every weekend.