Tasha So you could say they surprise me.

is this perhaps also due to your general behaviour? does good behaviour increase the chances of you getting a break?

Tasha I suppose I behaved well and cleaned myself pretty good so my mum just let me know that they don't need to be supervised one day. Not sure if something else was also at play here.

yes, that's what really surprises me, i'm surprised that the monitoring stops when it goes to 24/7 wear, normally i would have thought it was the other way round

Tasha I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages?

in germany it is restricted allowed from 14 and unrestricted from 16, but in most countries the laws are there for adults not to have sex with minors under a certain age. i know of no other country where it is a criminal offence for 2 17 year olds to have sex with each other

          Angelina

          Yeah I don't know much about the laws in other countries. The intention behind the POCSO act (which prevents under-age sex) is mainly reduce.. forced sex (not sure if I can use the word here) and teen pregnancies from my understanding.

          Considering a full time belting since 18, I'm meeting 20 now, I can think of only 9-10 reliefs so far. So far I haven't noticed any correlation between my behavior and the frequency of being released. The correlation seems more towards thier mood than my behaviour.

          I was a bit surprised on the showers too, but not quite sure what happened there. I'm not going to discuss it with them regardless.

              Tasha The times are still not enough I feel. Getting relief once in a few months for 30-90 minutes is a good start for me, but I'll eventually fight for more. Ofcourse others might disagree on relief periods as a whole but I feel I personally deserve them.

              I would negotiate 1 day belt off at home per month and no supervision.

              Tasha (I'm not saying playing with yourself is unproductive, but spending a whole day thinking about it is certainly not)

              It is on you if you do it during the day when you should be productive or in the evening as a reward. I think if you are able to manage a company you are also able to manage yourself.
              As you see it as not forced you have a good argument for you negotiation. If you bring up all what you told us, it is ok your wear it outside, get a day per month without belt, etc, or you refuse to continue, what will they do than? Best is your parent accept it

                    Joh

                    Joh is right. If you just refuse to belt, what leverage your parents have? You are independent

                        WriterAlexis

                        It's very hard to picture what happens in a different country as far as India, but it seems really weird for me the idea that a parent can really says “since you don't want to wear a chastity belt I will kick you out from home”

                        I mean, unless being belted is socially acceptable (and I'm pretty sure it isn't almost anywhere) it is sufficient just to hint something like that this to colleagues, friends, relatives to destroy the family reputation. Something no-one will want to do, unless of course kicking out from home or doing some very bad action.

                        In my opinion belting parents are in a very weak position, and as soon as the daughter refuse it, they can just accept it. Maybe be unhappy, but that's all.

                        Also, I don't think that since wife, an independent adult, is belted, so the daughters must do the same. A belted wife can decides and get released more or less often, a belted daughter is released much rarely.

                            WriterAlexis I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)

                            But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                                Laura

                                But a different situation. I know it's pointless to tell you each time, and I'm just bothering you, but I would really like that you understand how much you are damaging yourself

                                    Milord But a different situation.

                                    Why is it? I'm talking about when I was 19. The situation was pretty similar

                                    Milord that you understand how much you are damaging yourself

                                    Damaging how?

                                          Laura Why is it? I'm talking about when I was 19. The situation was pretty similar

                                          But you are no longer 19, and your situation now is exactly the same. Same situation at different age make different situation

                                          As for damaging, may I answer via mail?

                                              Milord and your situation now is exactly the same

                                              No, it's different now

                                              Milord As for damaging, may I answer via mail?

                                              As you wish

                                                    Laura No, it's different now

                                                    May I ask in which way? Belted at 19, belted now. Living at home at 19, living at home now. According to what I know of course

                                                        Tasha I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)

                                                        But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                                                        That's the quid pro quo. You get locked by them for an easier life else. perfectly reasonable IMO

                                                            Greatcornbow

                                                            I disagree. This should be provided to a 19yo without having to give personal freedom away (hint: this is how it happens everywhere, and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)

                                                                Milord and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)

                                                                I doubt that most people who go through these experiences post on Reddit about it, but yeah, the stories will be similar.

                                                                    youdontknowme

                                                                    Of course, but it is to explain the point. Most abuses are never told, even if I see that something is moving and people start to talk