Tasha The times are still not enough I feel. Getting relief once in a few months for 30-90 minutes is a good start for me, but I'll eventually fight for more. Ofcourse others might disagree on relief periods as a whole but I feel I personally deserve them.

I would negotiate 1 day belt off at home per month and no supervision.

Tasha (I'm not saying playing with yourself is unproductive, but spending a whole day thinking about it is certainly not)

It is on you if you do it during the day when you should be productive or in the evening as a reward. I think if you are able to manage a company you are also able to manage yourself.
As you see it as not forced you have a good argument for you negotiation. If you bring up all what you told us, it is ok your wear it outside, get a day per month without belt, etc, or you refuse to continue, what will they do than? Best is your parent accept it

        Joh

        Joh is right. If you just refuse to belt, what leverage your parents have? You are independent

            WriterAlexis

            It's very hard to picture what happens in a different country as far as India, but it seems really weird for me the idea that a parent can really says “since you don't want to wear a chastity belt I will kick you out from home”

            I mean, unless being belted is socially acceptable (and I'm pretty sure it isn't almost anywhere) it is sufficient just to hint something like that this to colleagues, friends, relatives to destroy the family reputation. Something no-one will want to do, unless of course kicking out from home or doing some very bad action.

            In my opinion belting parents are in a very weak position, and as soon as the daughter refuse it, they can just accept it. Maybe be unhappy, but that's all.

            Also, I don't think that since wife, an independent adult, is belted, so the daughters must do the same. A belted wife can decides and get released more or less often, a belted daughter is released much rarely.

                WriterAlexis I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)

                But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                    Laura

                    But a different situation. I know it's pointless to tell you each time, and I'm just bothering you, but I would really like that you understand how much you are damaging yourself

                        Milord But a different situation.

                        Why is it? I'm talking about when I was 19. The situation was pretty similar

                        Milord that you understand how much you are damaging yourself

                        Damaging how?

                              Laura Why is it? I'm talking about when I was 19. The situation was pretty similar

                              But you are no longer 19, and your situation now is exactly the same. Same situation at different age make different situation

                              As for damaging, may I answer via mail?

                                  Milord and your situation now is exactly the same

                                  No, it's different now

                                  Milord As for damaging, may I answer via mail?

                                  As you wish

                                        Laura No, it's different now

                                        May I ask in which way? Belted at 19, belted now. Living at home at 19, living at home now. According to what I know of course

                                            Tasha I could live alone if I wanted to. I'll be making less profits but it can be done for sure (if things get really bad)

                                            But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                                            That's the quid pro quo. You get locked by them for an easier life else. perfectly reasonable IMO

                                                Greatcornbow

                                                I disagree. This should be provided to a 19yo without having to give personal freedom away (hint: this is how it happens everywhere, and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)

                                                    Milord and where it doesn't happen it normally end in raisedbynarcissistic subreddit)

                                                    I doubt that most people who go through these experiences post on Reddit about it, but yeah, the stories will be similar.

                                                        youdontknowme

                                                        Of course, but it is to explain the point. Most abuses are never told, even if I see that something is moving and people start to talk

                                                          Milord I have the impression that there are some girls on this forum who are simply comfortable with this form of dependence on their parents, which is why they accept wearing a belt.

                                                              Tasha But living with them gives me a big house to roam in and home cooked food which I do like hah

                                                              This is a pro on your list and only few releases is the contra. Anyway you are in a good position for a better agreement. You can offer to continue with the belt with more me-time. You decide how often is good and not distracting e.g. ones per month or every weekend.