Tasha's stuff

Renita But not instead you

Of course not, but I think a boss should always be a role model for his employees

Laura you do the job, it's employment even to yourself
someone else does the job for you, it's a business

and if both are true? if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

icaasi

please introduce yourself in introduction

Laura Only me

Let's assume you had a sister, would she automatically have to wear a belt or is that always an individual decision?

Tasha Rings that allow things to be attached? No (yay!)

then you don't need to worry about thighbands

Tasha

congratulations, you have achieved something great I think continuing to wear it outside the house is the absolute maximum, especially when you consider the context that your sister is currently not wearing a belt at home either.
If there are further discussions, you should make your position clear. But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject. I think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents.

Tasha Concratulation to Stand Up for yourself.
Have you thought about setting yourself a schedule for your me-time?
It would help you not to fall back into old habits. For example, once a month or on every Sunday.

Tasha My mum unlocked and took it away

Congratulations. I always fail in it because talk with the belt on

Laura You have missed my irony. Since @Renita can't get free from her belt by moving out she should move in

It's not as much ironical as you think. If I moved in, I wouldn't wear the belt when we are both home.

Tasha Just a day out the belt and I'm already happier

It's more than a day now.

Tasha Would be hard to go back in

When is it planned to be?

Tasha Now I imagine you bringing a boy home and asking for the key with him around...

Tasha For me it didn't really work out, probably because of my sister being out, I having the possibility to get out of the belt fully, and emotions

Sorry, I don't get it.

youdontknowme Now I imagine you bringing a boy home and asking for the key with him around...

But she is unbelted at home, just need to find an excuse for him

Tasha Thier opinion would be to he belted at home which is not what I'm looking to be in again.

Milord Disagree of course

please read again, i said accept the opinion of the parents and not follow the opinion

Angelina and i disagree on accepting their opinion.

Milord and i disagree on accepting their opinion.

hey, it's nothing different than what I often do to you here. I don't agree with you on some points, but I accept your opinion and try to understand it. @Tasha should do nothing different either.

Angelina

Maybe we give a different meaning to the word “accepting”. I don’t accept opinion I disagree with. I respect the right to express them, but I don’t respect the idea per se if for me it’s completely wrong. I normally give a lot of explanation on why I don’t accept them.

So in my opinion accepting is recognising that the idea is valid, even if I disagree on it
For example I accept the idea @Ines being belted. Do I think she should? No. But I accept she want this and happy about it.

Hope the example clarify my position.

Milord That approach works well when in a situation where the ideas themselves are primary (like this forum). However, when trying to navigate a personal relationship we sometimes need to accept and work around unreasonable and/or irrational ideas.

To use Tasha's situation as an example, if she completely disregards her parents' opinion it will probably damage the relationship. Thad doesn't mean she has to do what they want all the time, but at least take their opinion into consideration and show them that she takes it seriously and they are more likely to accept a compromise she is willing to make.