Laura to get out... @Renita need no help to be submitted to her mother. But fine for her, fine for me. I give up

      Laura you always take me off guard with your irony, I'm sorry 😐

        Tasha Congratulations on fighting for what you wanted and getting it. Should feel pretty proud of yourself

            Renita But not instead you 😃

            Of course not, but I think a boss should always be a role model for his employees 🙂

            Laura you do the job, it's employment even to yourself
            someone else does the job for you, it's a business

            and if both are true? if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

            icaasi

            please introduce yourself in introduction 🙂

            Laura Only me

            Let's assume you had a sister, would she automatically have to wear a belt or is that always an individual decision?

            Tasha Rings that allow things to be attached? No (yay!)

            then you don't need to worry about thighbands 😃

            Tasha

            congratulations, you have achieved something great 😃 I think continuing to wear it outside the house is the absolute maximum, especially when you consider the context that your sister is currently not wearing a belt at home either.
            If there are further discussions, you should make your position clear. But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject. I think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents.

                          Angelina if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

                          Business, because you could always hand your work to your employees if needed

                            Laura And didn't put back since then?

                            We went out today with my parents and my sister for - mainly - shopping. My dad told me the belt wasn't needed as they would be close to me. They were, always either my mum or dad were along with me and my sister.

                            Sasha Should feel pretty proud of yourself

                            I do feel I achieved something I've wanted. Not everything I wanted but good progress

                            Angelina But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject

                            Thier opinion would be to he belted at home which is not what I'm looking to be in again.

                            Just a day out the belt and I'm already happier. Would be hard to go back in.

                            Angelina mutual understanding

                            I guess yeah.

                                      Angelina But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject.

                                      Disagree of course

                                      Angelina think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents

                                      They will not send her away. It would be suicidal. Than for the rest you know my position, so useless to discuss it again

                                            Tasha Concratulation to Stand Up for yourself.
                                            Have you thought about setting yourself a schedule for your me-time?
                                            It would help you not to fall back into old habits. For example, once a month or on every Sunday.

                                                Joh Have you thought about setting yourself a schedule for your me-time?

                                                Currently I've not messed around too much, but yes some sort of a semi rigid seems probably for the better.

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                                                    Tasha
                                                    I know a women who want to stay cast but not without it until heir wedding. Every last Sunday of the month she is without her belt and then has her me-time.
                                                    The other time she wears her belt. She says it is less hard and no temptation to cheat

                                                        Tasha My mum unlocked and took it away

                                                        Congratulations. I always fail in it because talk with the belt on 😃

                                                        Laura You have missed my irony. Since @Renita can't get free from her belt by moving out she should move in

                                                        It's not as much ironical as you think. If I moved in, I wouldn't wear the belt when we are both home.

                                                        Tasha Just a day out the belt and I'm already happier

                                                        It's more than a day now.

                                                        Tasha Would be hard to go back in

                                                        When is it planned to be?

                                                                  Renita Congratulations. I always fail in it because talk with the belt on 😃

                                                                  Break it. So you can talk without the belt on. Breaking the lock is not so hard. Pretty easy actually because it is very small

                                                                  Or when you are opened refuse to get back and talk with her while unbelted.

                                                                    Joh well I had worked out a deal like that before, I also mentioned it on the fourm somewhere.

                                                                    For me it didn't really work out, probably because of my sister being out, I having the possibility to get out of the belt fully, and emotions

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                                                                        Renita When is it planned to be?

                                                                        Like when going outside or when I'm left alone at home. Or if I decide to dumb things, maybe they put the belt on me. But I don't think I'll do dumb stuff.

                                                                            Tasha For me it didn't really work out, probably because of my sister being out, I having the possibility to get out of the belt fully, and emotions

                                                                            Sorry, I don't get it.

                                                                                youdontknowme Now I imagine you bringing a boy home and asking for the key with him around...

                                                                                But she is unbelted at home, just need to find an excuse for him 😂

                                                                                  youdontknowme I'm not that stupid haha. If I dare ask that there will be a huge commotion at the home.

                                                                                  Joh Sorry, I don't get it.

                                                                                  I was promised monthly unlocking before, I remember posting it here.

                                                                                  Aside:
                                                                                  And I've been very busy and will be this week.

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                                                                                      Tasha Thier opinion would be to he belted at home which is not what I'm looking to be in again.

                                                                                      Milord Disagree of course

                                                                                      please read again, i said accept the opinion of the parents and not follow the opinion