Angelina i think that your girlfriend should spare you this frustration, but it's your decision. but only if you agree
It's not too often that she does it and I let her do it most of the time, after all that's the only way that she can see a "sexual reaction" from me. Also the reduced leaking isn't that bad, although it isn't worth it for only that effect. 
I agree.
Angelina i don't think there are different risks, it is certainly more painful for boys, but also we girls don't know how our bodies react after several years without orgasm
Having a chastity cage/male chastity belt is painful when they get erect,and usually,they can't get totally erect with it on,and I guess it is why it can be damaging.
For us,it is frustrating,but,when we get aroused,it doen't prevent our body to react as it would react if we haven't to wear it.We can't relieve our urges and experience orgasm,but it is the only consequences.
If is better than nothing sexual,yes.Sex is important in a couple.
Vanessa Having a chastity cage/male chastity belt is painful when they get erect
It’s not truth. Maybe in case of cages or wrong cheap belts. But in good chastity BELT is comfort even in case of erection. I like when my wife does get me excited when i’m belted. Or oral for her. It is without any pain.
Vanessa Having a chastity cage/male chastity belt is painful when they get erect,and usually,they can't get totally erect with it on,and I guess it is why it can be damaging.
I'll confirm that 
If the cage fits correctly (like my everyday cage does) it should make a full erection impossible without hurting too much or damaging anything.
Vanessa If is better than nothing sexual,yes.Sex is important in a couple.
Yes, that's pretty much it. That way she has at least some way of "seeing something sexual" from me. Besides, allthough the frustration is horrible it does at least prevent the dripping for quite some time and that's a nice side effect.
Angelina It depends on the material. The cage I wear all the time is made of "biosourced resin", or at least that's what the manufacturer claims. It's pretty stiff but the material itself is still "soft". In that cage I'm able to get an erection up to a certain point until my penis just goes flaccid again. It doesn't really hurt, and when it does, only for a short time. However, my "travel cage" is made of some kind of plastic and that's a completely different story. I'm able to get a little harder than in my usual cage, but it really hurts as soon as I start to get hard and doesn't stop until everything is flaccid again. I'm really glad that I almost never wear it.
As long as you don't clamp any blood vessels in the cage it's pretty safe. It only seems that the penis gets smaller after wearing for a long time (I can confirm that), but it seems like that is only temporary and is reversed after a few days of being unlocked.
thanks for the clarifying answers 
and now to all girls. here i have two proofs that male chastity is possible and not necessarily painful and at least lucas wears the cb 24/7
Evidence completed
PS: I am still against forced chastity, I just wanted to show that male chastity is just as possible as female chastity
For my twin,it is very different.Even kissing his girlfriend make him feel pain,when he has to wear his chastity cage,and I think it can easily be the case with a male chastity belt,too.But maybe your brand is designed to allow to be erect,while still preventing orgasm.
Lukas Yes, that's pretty much it. That way she has at least some way of "seeing something sexual" from me. Besides, allthough the frustration is horrible it does at least prevent the dripping for quite some time and that's a nice side effect.
I think it is good for your relationship,too.
Lukas As long as you don't clamp any blood vessels in the cage it's pretty safe. It only seems that the penis gets smaller after wearing for a long time (I can confirm that), but it seems like that is only temporary and is reversed after a few days of being unlocked.
I guess it can be worn without having problems,even after a long wearing time,but it seems it can easily have very bad consequences...
Possible,yes,it would have the expected effect,preventing the man wearing it to masturbate and have sex.But the consequences and side effects could be very different.
Vanessa Possible,yes,it would have the expected effect,preventing the man wearing it to masturbate and have sex.But the consequences and side effects could be very different.
I think the long time risks after 24/7 wearing for a long time are much bigger then for woman. I think a men body kind of needs an erection from time to time to stay intact. Otherwise you risk to loose the ability to get an erection afterwards.
Sara2001 As you may or may not know: Males (even as children) do have erections in the morning and during the night, these serve as an work-out for the penis, so it works when it is supposed too. So you are quite right there, Sara.
Vanessa But the consequences and side effects could be very different.
Have you ever considered that your brother has a very unsuitable cage?
Sara2001 I think the long time risks after 24/7 wearing for a long time are much bigger then for woman. I think a men body kind of needs an erection from time to time to stay intact. Otherwise you risk to loose the ability to get an erection afterwards.
i doubt that, besides we cannot know how our body will react after the long time in chastity
Angelina i doubt that, besides we cannot know how our body will react after the long time in chastity
At least we can get aroused. I think the system of a male chastity belt is completely different. I know from misterpoll that Americangraffiti was not able to get en erection once he got free from the belt after long time wearing. I don't know if he can have sex now, but it was definitely for a long time where he was unable.
I don't think something similar can happen to a woman.
Sara2001 I know from misterpoll that Americangraffiti was not able to get en erection once he got free from the belt after long time wearing. I don't know if he can have sex now, but it was definitely for a long time where he was unable.
I never heared about any other one with same destiny. Anyone else?
Martin I think because nobody wears male chastity belts seriously. Well it can be worn for short term, at least not as long as female one. But @AmericanGraffiti 's mother thought differently
