i don't think any muslima has the name sara 
there is in my opinion nothing to understand it is simply wrong, very wrong 
yes i have to ask before i want to buy bigger things, but it's not my money, it's my father's money. you have your own money, that's something completely different
this is an absolutely wrong and stupid reason, i will ask my father what he thinks of such a reason . sorry but your father could have at least come up with a reasonable reason
Sara2001 Yes, because his experience is that there is more harmony in the family/relationship if the man makes the descisions and the woman follow. That's the basic premise behind everything.
Is it your boyfriend's opinion too,or would you be more free on some aspects when married(not about chastity,nor,totally,money,but maybe on other parts)?
Sara2001 I thought many of us have to ask before they buy bigger things, it's just more strict in my family.
Yes,for things expensive,I've to ask before.
BikelockFugitive Yeah thats cause if the girls think its unfair and speak up, they get an extra hour of cornertime and a spanking with a hairbrush on Sundays
Generally,as long as it is done calmly and with respect,I dont' think it would be the case.Except if they insist too much after a clear "No.",maybe...
Angelina there is in my opinion nothing to understand it is simply wrong, very wrong
We can disagree,but try to undertsand his idea!
Angelina this is an absolutely wrong and stupid reason, i will ask my father what he thinks of such a reason . sorry but your father could have at least come up with a reasonable reason
It could be interesting;but let's hope it doesn't give him ideas!
Vanessa Is it your boyfriend's opinion too,or would you be more free on some aspects when married(not about chastity,nor,totally,money,but maybe on other parts)?
This is the main concept behind a male led relationship and for Daniel it is not a question that he will become the male leader and that it is the job of the mail leader to make any decisions and that it is his job to always give my interest the top priority.
I think this is a very difficult job. Much more difficult then obeying.
I think I will be as restricted as I am now, just some parts will be less strict while others will be more strict. But I think a common misunderstanding in the concept for outsiders is that I am regularly not allowed to do many things. An example is that I need permission to go out. My father would never deny my request without a good reason nor would Daniel. If I want to go out and I have done my tasks for the day, I can of course go out. I just have to ask permission before.
Renita It may not be her real name
It is 
I'm not a muslima and I know Sarah is a common name in Iran but my name is Sara
Angelina it's something completely different whether you want to go out or want your money, I think that's not a good comparison
The rule is as simple as I say. My father has the final saying about absolutely everything. End of the story. In some aspects I can decide on my own until my father has other ideas (like clothes in a defined range), for most things I have to ask in advance.
Sara2001 This is the main concept behind a male led relationship and for Daniel it is not a question that he will become the male leader and that it is the job of the mail leader to make any decisions and that it is his job to always give my interest the top priority.
I think this is a very difficult job. Much more difficult then obeying.
I think I can understand it can be a harder job.Less limited,but more to think.
Sara2001 I think I will be as restricted as I am now, just some parts will be less strict while others will be more strict. But I think a common misunderstanding in the concept for outsiders is that I am regularly not allowed to do many things. An example is that I need permission to go out. My father would never deny my request without a good reason nor would Daniel. If I want to go out and I have done my tasks for the day, I can of course go out. I just have to ask permission before.
I wouldn't like to have to ask permission for going out when married,even if almost always allowed.I would find it pretty humiliating...Telling before I go out,however,would be ok.
I think too.
In the game "Mass Effect",we always play the Commander Shepard,but,we can choose to play a man or a woman,and choose his/her name.For men,the most common was John,and,for women,the most common was Sarah(or Sara,I don't remember).
Angelina my father would never deny me access to my money
Getting his opinion would still be interesting.
Sara2001 I think my father draws the red line at another position then you
I think too it depends on each family,and on the opinion on different subjects.Maybe @Sara2001's father would think your father is too strict because you have to wear a chastity bra permanently.
I once told my father the story of sara and how her money is managed.
he definitely agrees with me that it's nonsense to block someone's own hard-earned money.
i honestly think it's pretty surprising that sara didn't have any chastity bra, because otherwise her father is very strict and there's more reason for her to do it than me
Angelina i honestly think it's pretty surprising that sara didn't have any chastity bra, because otherwise her father is very strict and there's more reason for her to do it than me
I was very surprised at first, too. Because everything else is so strict.
I think it is a kind of test. He can not loose to much but he can see how much he can trust Daniel and me.
Don't get me wrong, I am very happy that I don't have to wear it but it is also very difficult for me to don't go to far.
Here's the link about Shepard's name: https://www.forbes.com/sites/insertcoin/2014/05/17/bioware-reveals-the-most-popular-commander-shepard-names-from-mass-effect-3/#606b807c309e
My bad,it was Jack,and not John,used the most for male Shepard(no John even in the top 5),but Sarah is the first choice for female Shepard,and especially,for german,french and italian.No Vanessa in the top 5!
Laura Sarah is more popular in the English world.
Yes,I think I notice more "Sarah" than "Sara".
Sara2001 Because he said I don't need a chastity bra, knowing playing with my breasts feels good for me, this is very likely
Good he accepts you still have such pleasant feelings.
You're right,he's against it too!
Yes,good for her,but surprising.Especially as she can reach orgasm by playing with her breasts.
Yes,I think it can be a test to know if you can respect the rules.Not having to wear one can be considered too as a reawrd for succeeding.
Angelina i can imagine that it's hard to resist an orgasm but it's definitely better than a chastity bra, so keep watching well
Yes,very hard.I'm not sure I could manage it....
Yes,her father gives her a good proof of trust to let her avoiding to wear it,she should take care he doesn't think she should not have been trusted and so,making him decide to make her wear a chastity bra.
But it is probably very hard to not use it to get at least one orgasm,it needs some strong willpower.Probably more than I would have in the same situation...Even if it would have very bad consequences.
