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Vanessa Is it your boyfriend's opinion too,or would you be more free on some aspects when married(not about chastity,nor,totally,money,but maybe on other parts)?

This is the main concept behind a male led relationship and for Daniel it is not a question that he will become the male leader and that it is the job of the mail leader to make any decisions and that it is his job to always give my interest the top priority.

I think this is a very difficult job. Much more difficult then obeying.

I think I will be as restricted as I am now, just some parts will be less strict while others will be more strict. But I think a common misunderstanding in the concept for outsiders is that I am regularly not allowed to do many things. An example is that I need permission to go out. My father would never deny my request without a good reason nor would Daniel. If I want to go out and I have done my tasks for the day, I can of course go out. I just have to ask permission before.

Renita It may not be her real name

It is I'm not a muslima and I know Sarah is a common name in Iran but my name is Sara

Sara2001 I know Sarah is a common name in Iran

It's common name everywhere

Angelina it's something completely different whether you want to go out or want your money, I think that's not a good comparison

The rule is as simple as I say. My father has the final saying about absolutely everything. End of the story. In some aspects I can decide on my own until my father has other ideas (like clothes in a defined range), for most things I have to ask in advance.

Angelina i have understood your rules, up to a certain point i live by such rules myself, but your father must realize when he goes too far

I think my father draws the red line at another position then you

Sara2001 This is the main concept behind a male led relationship and for Daniel it is not a question that he will become the male leader and that it is the job of the mail leader to make any decisions and that it is his job to always give my interest the top priority.

I think this is a very difficult job. Much more difficult then obeying.

I think I can understand it can be a harder job.Less limited,but more to think.

Sara2001 I think I will be as restricted as I am now, just some parts will be less strict while others will be more strict. But I think a common misunderstanding in the concept for outsiders is that I am regularly not allowed to do many things. An example is that I need permission to go out. My father would never deny my request without a good reason nor would Daniel. If I want to go out and I have done my tasks for the day, I can of course go out. I just have to ask permission before.

I wouldn't like to have to ask permission for going out when married,even if almost always allowed.I would find it pretty humiliating...Telling before I go out,however,would be ok.

Laura

I think too.

In the game "Mass Effect",we always play the Commander Shepard,but,we can choose to play a man or a woman,and choose his/her name.For men,the most common was John,and,for women,the most common was Sarah(or Sara,I don't remember).

Angelina my father would never deny me access to my money

Getting his opinion would still be interesting.

Sara2001 I think my father draws the red line at another position then you

I think too it depends on each family,and on the opinion on different subjects.Maybe @Sara2001's father would think your father is too strict because you have to wear a chastity bra permanently.

Vanessa or women,the most common was Sarah(or Sara,I don't remember).

Sarah is more popular in the English world.

Vanessa Maybe @Sara2001's father would think your father is too strict because you have to wear a chastity bra permanently.

Because he said I don't need a chastity bra, knowing playing with my breasts feels good for me, this is very likely

Angelina i honestly think it's pretty surprising that sara didn't have any chastity bra, because otherwise her father is very strict and there's more reason for her to do it than me

I was very surprised at first, too. Because everything else is so strict.

I think it is a kind of test. He can not loose to much but he can see how much he can trust Daniel and me.

Don't get me wrong, I am very happy that I don't have to wear it but it is also very difficult for me to don't go to far.

Angelina definitely

Here's the link about Shepard's name: https://www.forbes.com/sites/insertcoin/2014/05/17/bioware-reveals-the-most-popular-commander-shepard-names-from-mass-effect-3/#606b807c309e

My bad,it was Jack,and not John,used the most for male Shepard(no John even in the top 5),but Sarah is the first choice for female Shepard,and especially,for german,french and italian.No Vanessa in the top 5!

Laura Sarah is more popular in the English world.

Yes,I think I notice more "Sarah" than "Sara".

Sara2001 Because he said I don't need a chastity bra, knowing playing with my breasts feels good for me, this is very likely

Good he accepts you still have such pleasant feelings.

Angelina

You're right,he's against it too!

Yes,good for her,but surprising.Especially as she can reach orgasm by playing with her breasts.

Sara2001

Yes,I think it can be a test to know if you can respect the rules.Not having to wear one can be considered too as a reawrd for succeeding.

Angelina i can imagine that it's hard to resist an orgasm but it's definitely better than a chastity bra, so keep watching well

Yes,very hard.I'm not sure I could manage it....

Angelina

Yes,her father gives her a good proof of trust to let her avoiding to wear it,she should take care he doesn't think she should not have been trusted and so,making him decide to make her wear a chastity bra.

But it is probably very hard to not use it to get at least one orgasm,it needs some strong willpower.Probably more than I would have in the same situation...Even if it would have very bad consequences.

Sara2001 I think the risk is actually bigger then for me, but as long as she not get caught playing with her breasts she should be save. My father again made it clear to us while I explained him my new rule form Daniel. The reason why I don't have to wear one is Daniels pleasure. My sister has no Daniel, so there is no need to keep them accessible.

Right,no good reason to not use it on her if she plays with her breasts,as she's single,now.

Have you to wait until a determined age before being allowed to date someone?

Sara2001 I fear the consequence to much. Not only the chastity bra but I think it would also "hurt" Daniel if I do it on purpose. I think as long as I can manage it, I will stop. I can swear to you it is very difficult.

I understand it would be hard for you to hurt your boyfriend,even if wearing a chastity bra wouldn't be easier to manage...I've no problem to trust you about how hard it is to stop before reaching orgasm!

Angelina if I had this ability, then I would understand the chastity bra for me, even a little

Same.If I would be able to reach orgasm by playing with my breasts,I would understand better why I should wear a chatsity bra.And it would probably be permanently for me too...

Angelina i understand your situation very well, you want to avoid an orgasm because of daniel, which i find of you very affectionate towards daniel, i think it is easier if you know for whom you renounce your pleasure

i don't know if a chastity bra would be good for you, but i hope for you that your breasts stay free, because a chastity bra is not very pleasant Vanessa can confirm that

Yes,I can confirm it is not pleasant at all.And I think you should do your best to avoid it.

I think too it can be a bit easier to accept to not have orgasm if doing it for the love of someone you love.

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For the moment all keep going well. We are knowing us. Sadely this weekend we only could go out a say for few time for my exams and he has plenty of time, here in university test are in February.