Secondary shield

Angelina i also think it is possible to mastubate without the secondary shield (unpleasant but possible), so i must never be without it. because mastubating was the trigger for my chastity

You agree you should not masturbate?Or do you fear that,without the secondary shield,you'll do it again,and be more punished?

Laura More possibilities" in relationships is different, if a girl is involved in it, it's little better than she doesn't wear a belt at all. So she should always have the secondary shield on for a relationship.

I think too that Emilie and me could have more possibilities without it on,yes.

Renita You also need a secondary shield

I'm not sure I "need" it,but I've one.

Tere And of course that man who encourages us, cares for us and loves us, from my point of view, deserves the same respect that we married women profess to our husband.

Do you think that masturbation is disrespectful?

In my opinion,it is pretty natural to do it,even more if we don't think to someone else than our partner.Knowing how our body reacts can ever makes intimacy with him/her even better for both of us(even more for bi or lesbian women,the more they know how's their body work and react,the more they can use their knowledge to give peasure to their girlfriends).

Ines And for me a chastity belt without a secondary shield is a nonsense. A belt whitout it just protect our hymen, and I want my belt protect me all, my love and my capability to give me up to my man.

Why masturbation could impact you capability to give you to your man?

Vanessa
Well Vanessa,
I can understand that not all girls have same feelings, but I like the idea of reserve a entire part of my life, the most primitive and essential part of my feminity to my man (obviously my feminity is much more complex and complete but the first foundation of it is my gender).
And well, I do not make criticism about different thinking ways, but I agree with my mother, give this entire control our man is beautiful way to honour him.

Vanessa

that's exactly the point, i mastubated a lot even though i knew my father didn't want it. if i didn't have a secondary sign i would try it again, but since i always wear a secondary sign i have no chance.

i would be punished but that is out of the question

Laura
Totally respectable approach, but we think is much better we do not have any possibility of control about this.
If girls we can handle some decision power about this, the security feel of be overpowered for our belt, dessapears.
But this is only our "philosophy":

Laura

the same with me. it is removable but it has more reasons in case of emergencies, otherwise it is always there

And before you ask, my father never said what an emergency would be.

Vanessa I'm not sure I "need" it,but I've one.

If only because you have a relationship with a girl

Renita

do you really think that makes a difference ? whether you're with a boy or a girl ?

Laura

oh, that's what you're getting at

ok i understand what you mean i thought rather in the direction if mastubation is possible what yes the case would be no matter if with boy or girl

Laura Well, because in case of boy a main shield prevents the main thing

Correct. And it doesn’t interfere with the girl

Angelina rather in the direction if mastubation is possible what yes the case would be no matter if with boy or girl

For this you need neither a boy nor a girl

Renita

I know, that's why I was confused

Ines I can understand that not all girls have same feelings, but I like the idea of reserve a entire part of my life, the most primitive and essential part of my feminity to my man

Ok,I can understand it.

Ines And well, I do not make criticism about different thinking ways

Same for me,sorry if you felt I criticized you,it was not my purpose.

Angelina that's exactly the point, i mastubated a lot even though i knew my father didn't want it. if i didn't have a secondary sign i would try it again, but since i always wear a secondary sign i have no chance.

At least,you avoid being punished for it...

Laura In my opinion, it would not hurt anybody if an unwed belted girl is allowed to masturbate, but not excessively. Because she doesn't have other options to relief.

I agree with you,even on the "not excessively" part.I liked to masturbate,I liked it a lot,but I was not a chronic masturbator either.Doing it too much can affect badly your social life, your study/work,your sexuality,etc....

Angelina the same with me. it is removable but it has more reasons in case of emergencies, otherwise it is always there

And before you ask, my father never said what an emergency would be.

I don't know what can be an emergency needing to take the secondary shield off,but keeping the belt on...

Renita If only because you have a relationship with a girl

No,I had to have it on permanently even when dating a man,or when single.

But I agree,with Emilie,if I haven't the secondary shield on,there would be much more pleasant possibilities!

Laura Maybe for cleaning?

It is better to take the belt off and clean more easily,and more completely.

Vanessa A girl may not have that key even for emergency.