We did not talk today :
, but I agree.
Chastity belt cares of my maidenhood, the shield and bands make it to take care of all me.
Secondary shield
Tere And secondly, the combination of belt and beloved man, makes me a much more loving wife, and (Ines do not read this), I think my husband will have few complaints in more than 23 years of marriage.
What if an unwed girl has a beloved man, should she always wear a secondary shield in your opinion?
Laura
Good evening, ladies and gentlemen.
In my environment, when a woman loves a man and this is reciprocal, this love is seldened into a marriage.
But it is clear that the importance of marriage is not the same for everyone.
Even for me the ensencial is not the word marriage, which for me is important, but that the woman feels possessed and loved by the man of her life.
In my view, just giving ourselves "Mr. Right," as you say, whether you're a husband or not, makes us flourish like women, and that's what we should expect, whether we're single or not.
And of course that man who encourages us, cares for us and loves us, from my point of view, deserves the same respect that we married women profess to our husband.
As I usually say, "the body is the property of the woman, but our desire is of our man and our belly of the couple".
Besides, when you're with the beloved man, you're even glad the secondary shield keeps you safe for him.
Again long post. Sorry.
I am a religious girl, I am not a fanatic but for me marriage is important.
Anyway for me one of the prettiest of being belted is to give myself to my man. If a girl do not believe in marriage she can still believe in chastity.
And for me a chastity belt without a secondary shield is a nonsense. A belt whitout it just protect our hymen, and I want my belt protect me all, my love and my capability to give me up to my man.
So, yes. Secondary shield ever fitted, however (now mom, do not read this 
) our "padlock sacking times".
Angelina i also think it is possible to mastubate without the secondary shield (unpleasant but possible), so i must never be without it. because mastubating was the trigger for my chastity
You agree you should not masturbate?Or do you fear that,without the secondary shield,you'll do it again,and be more punished?
Laura More possibilities" in relationships is different, if a girl is involved in it, it's little better than she doesn't wear a belt at all. So she should always have the secondary shield on for a relationship.
I think too that Emilie and me could have more possibilities without it on,yes.
Renita You also need a secondary shield
I'm not sure I "need" it,but I've one.
Tere And of course that man who encourages us, cares for us and loves us, from my point of view, deserves the same respect that we married women profess to our husband.
Do you think that masturbation is disrespectful?
In my opinion,it is pretty natural to do it,even more if we don't think to someone else than our partner.Knowing how our body reacts can ever makes intimacy with him/her even better for both of us(even more for bi or lesbian women,the more they know how's their body work and react,the more they can use their knowledge to give peasure to their girlfriends).
Ines And for me a chastity belt without a secondary shield is a nonsense. A belt whitout it just protect our hymen, and I want my belt protect me all, my love and my capability to give me up to my man.
Why masturbation could impact you capability to give you to your man?
Vanessa
Well Vanessa,
I can understand that not all girls have same feelings, but I like the idea of reserve a entire part of my life, the most primitive and essential part of my feminity to my man (obviously my feminity is much more complex and complete but the first foundation of it is my gender).
And well, I do not make criticism about different thinking ways, but I agree with my mother, give this entire control our man is beautiful way to honour him.
Vanessa Do you think that masturbation is disrespectful?
In my opinion,it is pretty natural to do it,even more if we don't think to someone else than our partner.
In my opinion, it would not hurt anybody if an unwed belted girl is allowed to masturbate, but not excessively. Because she doesn't have other options to relief.
Ines I can understand that not all girls have same feelings, but I like the idea of reserve a entire part of my life, the most primitive and essential part of my feminity to my man
Ok,I can understand it.
Ines And well, I do not make criticism about different thinking ways
Same for me,sorry if you felt I criticized you,it was not my purpose.
Angelina that's exactly the point, i mastubated a lot even though i knew my father didn't want it. if i didn't have a secondary sign i would try it again, but since i always wear a secondary sign i have no chance.
At least,you avoid being punished for it...
Laura In my opinion, it would not hurt anybody if an unwed belted girl is allowed to masturbate, but not excessively. Because she doesn't have other options to relief.
I agree with you,even on the "not excessively" part.I liked to masturbate,I liked it a lot,but I was not a chronic masturbator either.Doing it too much can affect badly your social life, your study/work,your sexuality,etc....
Angelina the same with me. it is removable but it has more reasons in case of emergencies, otherwise it is always there
And before you ask, my father never said what an emergency would be.
I don't know what can be an emergency needing to take the secondary shield off,but keeping the belt on...
Renita If only because you have a relationship with a girl
No,I had to have it on permanently even when dating a man,or when single.
But I agree,with Emilie,if I haven't the secondary shield on,there would be much more pleasant possibilities!