Telling others about your belt
Laura I think it is a good way for outsiders with loose contact. I think I will still hide it as much as possible to avoid any talk about it. I don't think your way would work for a bff or boyfriend (maybe I would follow your advice in the beginning, but I don't want to lie on him for a longer period). At least for me
@Sara2001
I've read about others who are locked in chastity pleasing their lovers, but it would make yourself more frustrated. Withholding yourself from any acts of pleasure would prevent a build up of emotions. Test your next boyfriend and see if they'd stay for you or for your services. Personally, I don't think it's a good idea, and save yourself for those acts after he becomes your fiance or husband.
Raziel I think we have not complete opposite positions here. I would not do this from the very beginning but only when I feel he is really in love with me and he could be Mr. Right. Maybe after a year or so. I think it's mean to let him wait until marriage just because my parents think I should focus more on becoming his perfect wife.
Sara2001 No, I just think: "Why should I take it away from him only because it's taken away from me by my parents".
Obviously because you are not married yet.
Sara2001 I don't think sex outside of a marriage is something bad in general.
If Ivana was here, she would say that's one more reason you need a belt.