When younger,only my ex-boyfriends knew it.If they are shocked,it was easier to be sure they won't tell anyone by telling them that,if he speak about it to anyone else,I'll break-up with him and never forgive him.While I generally doesn't explain about my belt before we're in love,it was effective.
Since I'm an adult,and in university,only my best friend knows it(in addition to my ex,and,of course,Emilie).I don't want too many people outside family to know it...
Sara2001 How important was having sex for your partners?I think I would satisfy their sex drive by hand or maybe mouth????. I think this can make a man very happy.
A woman too,I use my hands and mouth to pleasure Emilie too,and I did it some times with ex,when I was punished by having to wear the belt,while in a relationship.
But I agree with Raziel,it can be very frustrating...
Sara2001 I don't think sex outside of a marriage is something bad in general.
Same for me.One night stand,I can understand it is not acceptable(even if it can feel good....),but if in love,sex should be allowed.
Laura If Ivana was here, she would say that's one more reason you need a belt.
Laura That's one of the missions of this site to make people familiar with it and explain advantages also for girls.
I doubt many women belted against their will will accept it has many advantages.If I can accept there is some,I think the bad parts are much more important than the benefits of it.