Saintprudence I feel like the desire to end virginity is not a good reason for marriage!

I agree.

Laura No way

Logical,but not good.

Saintprudence you encounter a partner who both adores you and will make no such request of you.

I hope it for her too.

Saintprudence Not many get a virginal spouse these days.

Right.

Laura

All of them were wearing a chastity belt until marriage?

Tobbe

It is why you should try a male chastity belt,not a female one!😉

Laura

Like for several of us.

Angelina even virgins can find partners 😉

Sure.

                    Vanessa As I told @Saintprudence in another tread: Several men here have told of problems and permanent injuries to use the belt. No health problems happens to female users if the belt is properly adjusted.

                        a_father You have a job and (I hope for you) money.

                        And investments.

                        a_father So you can move out whenever you want.

                        Yes I can if it's needed

                        a_father How long will you be belted?

                        You know it

                        a_father When is the right time to start your own life?

                        What for? You still didn't tell me a good reason

                        Vanessa All of them were wearing a chastity belt until marriage?

                        Not everybody, but most of them. Females, of course

                                    HHelen as I’ve said before, I have a certain admiration for your dedication to purpose and I wish my own mom had taken the kind of care you are showing.

                                        Laura Yes I can if it's needed

                                        I thought you didn't live with your parents anymore?

                                          Saintprudence I have a certain admiration for your dedication to purpose and I wish my own mom had taken the kind of care you are showing.

                                          Thank you. Back to the topic, I'm pretty sure, that age is not an exception.

                                          a_father Till the age of 30, 35, 40

                                          Do you mean, that girls in these ages are hopelessly old?

                                                HHelen Old enough to decide for your sexual activities yourself. She is not a baby. Her sexuality is her own property.

                                                    a_father Old enough to decide for your sexual activities yourself.

                                                    And it's called "age of consent" 😂

                                                        Laura You are not only of legal age, but also in the middle of life. Then take control of your life too. I just don't understand what's stopping you from doing it.

                                                            a_father one reason I started my sunk-cost poll is because I strongly suspect that Laura went into the belt over her own objections but, as time has passed, has come to agree on some level that it’s probably worthwhile to stay belted until marriage because she’s worn it this long.

                                                                a_father The belt doesn't make it easier.

                                                                A belt only prevents sex, but not relationships.

                                                                    @Christine and @Abby82

                                                                    you both understood it. that's why i can only guess @Laura. don't let your lifestyle talk you out of it, but if you are really looking for a partner become active yourself, but make sure that your partner at least accepts this lifestyle 🙂

                                                                    @a_father @Renita @Abby82 @Laura A quote from wikipedia:

                                                                    "Delayed gratification, or deferred gratification, describes the process that the subject undergoes when the subject resists the temptation of an immediate reward in preference for a later reward. Generally, delayed gratification is associated with resisting a smaller but more immediate reward in order to receive a larger or more enduring reward later. A growing body of literature has linked the ability to delay gratification to a host of other positive outcomes, including academic success, physical health, psychological health, and social competence."

                                                                      Laura Not realy.

                                                                      There are some sperging gammas on this forum who do not (want to) understand that there are people who have different values and priorities than them.

                                                                      They cannot and do not want to understand but insist on running other peoples live.

                                                                      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

                                                                          Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

                                                                          i see it differently, living independently is something different than living with a partner/spouse

                                                                          Saintprudence I don’t want to derail from the topic any further!

                                                                          i did not understand the last posts on this topic anyway, so it is better if we stick to the topic 😂