Thighbands for men
Do you think it is better to order a belt with the attachments on the hipband so you can add thigh bands as an option in the future?
i see no reason for this, as i said with men it makes no sense
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Tobbe You spend too much time trying to figure out how I think and feel about men in chastity. I only answered the question.
So, what do you think about men in chastity? What doypu think about then as well as about what they shall do?
Verrouille
Well, as you are a bdsm-like couple you might need it one day. But the girls are right, there's no need to wear them for the purpose of being chaste. Just for the purpose of being punished or whatever. (Or for the puepose of forced feminisation of course, too)
it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character
Verrouille Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.
but you will also fight with thigh bands and in contrast to women, thigh bands have no effect on men's chances of success
[deleted] but are you saying there's a psychological effect too? Do they help to accept wearing the belt or fight against it less in some way?
it has a psychological effect, definitely.
everyone would answer your other two questions differently
Verrouille Perhaps should my new belt be equipped with that option. Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.
I think it is impossible to not fight it,even knowing it would be punished with the thigh bands,however.
In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...
Angelina it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character
Even if you wear these,too?
Vanessa In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...
it is exactly the same with me, I have never fought less through the thigh bands
Vanessa Even if you wear these,too?
for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity
[deleted] that they can feel calmed by restraints
i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry 
Angelina i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry
Maybe some people just calm down somehow because they know they have absolutely no chance to cheat on the belt with the restraints, so they give up fighting and calm down by that.
And others just feel comfortable in restraint and calm down by that.
I think how we react depend on our personality.
But I'm not sure it would have one of these effect for a man,however.
Angelina for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity
So,you don't consider it as part of your chastity?
Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...