Vanessa

it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character

Verrouille Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.

but you will also fight with thigh bands and in contrast to women, thigh bands have no effect on men's chances of success

[deleted] but are you saying there's a psychological effect too? Do they help to accept wearing the belt or fight against it less in some way?

it has a psychological effect, definitely.
everyone would answer your other two questions differently

          Verrouille Perhaps should my new belt be equipped with that option. Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.

          I think it is impossible to not fight it,even knowing it would be punished with the thigh bands,however.

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          In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...

          Angelina it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character

          Even if you wear these,too?

                  Vanessa In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...

                  it is exactly the same with me, I have never fought less through the thigh bands

                  Vanessa Even if you wear these,too?

                  for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity

                  [deleted] that they can feel calmed by restraints

                  i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry 😂

                          Angelina i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry

                          Maybe some people just calm down somehow because they know they have absolutely no chance to cheat on the belt with the restraints, so they give up fighting and calm down by that.
                          And others just feel comfortable in restraint and calm down by that.

                              Max9 so they give up fighting and calm down by that.

                              I think I am too ambitious for that, when I want something, I give everything 😂

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                                  Angelina Just like me, when I'm very involved with something. I often don't give too much effort when it's about something I can also live without, but when I really want something I fight limitless.

                                      Max9 but when I really want something I fight limitless.

                                      and to cheat my belt (without my father noticing), is one of the goals 😉

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                                          I think how we react depend on our personality.

                                          But I'm not sure it would have one of these effect for a man,however.

                                          Angelina for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity

                                          So,you don't consider it as part of your chastity?

                                          Angelina

                                          Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...🙁

                                                  Max9

                                                  thanks, but it will probably be impossible

                                                  Vanessa So,you don't consider it as part of your chastity?

                                                  for women yes, but not for men 😂

                                                  Vanessa Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...🙁

                                                  🙁

                                                          Angelina it will probably be impossible

                                                          Probably right...🙁

                                                          Angelina for women yes, but not for men 😂

                                                          Understandable,yes.

                                                              Angelina and to cheat my belt (without my father noticing), is one of the goals

                                                              Vanessa Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...

                                                              Can I ask why an idea that seems obvious doesn't work? I don't remember anyone suggesting it in one of Esteban's threads and I'm curious.

                                                              If that's OK, what thread should I ask in?

                                                                    Tim Can I ask why an idea that seems obvious doesn't work?

                                                                    why it obviously works ? it normally does not work

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                                                                        Angelina That's not what I meant.

                                                                        If I was in your situation, there is something I would try as soon as I discovered that my fingers wouldn't fit under the belt. I don't remember anyone suggesting it, so I assume it's obvious that it doesn't work but I don't know why.

                                                                        If I describe it, would you tell me why it doesn't work?

                                                                        Vanessa Thank you. Before I post, I'll read through it again to make sure I didn't forget anything that was already answered.

                                                                              Tim I would try as soon

                                                                              i don't understand what you would try, i don't understand the context. i can get a finger under my belt with a lot of effort, but what should i try? i can't get the finger at an angle that brings me closer to my clitoris

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                                                                                  Tim

                                                                                  I have already tried that, I can stimulate myself a little, but it is not enough for an orgasm and afterwards I am even more frustrated

                                                                                      Angelina Now we're getting to what makes me curious, because, if the stimulation was too weak, I wouldn't give up. I'd get a non-elastic sweatband made of terrycloth or do some arts and crafts and keep a long narrow scrap of corduroy.

                                                                                      If that wasn't enough, I'd try adding some decorative patches or hand embroidery to the headband to add more texture.

                                                                                      I saw catherine98 had trouble with too much friction. Maybe a non-elastic sweatband made of the kind of poplin used in dress shirts (we call it broadcloth here), with a pretty print on it, and then a patch of terrycloth sewed to the inside only where the forehead is. Claim it's to soak up sweat and position it to only add friction where you need it.

                                                                                      If there's still too much friction, maybe feed another piece of something thin under the parts of the belt where you want less friction, so the cloth can rub against that instead of your skin, or find something like skin cream that you can safely use as lubricant for the parts that don't need the friction and then wash out in the bathroom sink.

                                                                                      Am I more dedicated to this idea or is there something I don't understand?

                                                                                          Tim Am I more dedicated to this idea or is there something I don't understand?

                                                                                          your ideas are good, i don't doubt that, but it's nothing new. i've tried many things, but i can't get in deep enough and the thigh bands make it even more complicated.

                                                                                          besides that and this is the most important point, i always have to be careful not to get caught doing it, so i usually can't realise complicated plans. that's why i try to get an orgasm in my belt now. it's unlikely but it's better to hide it