Do you think it is better to order a belt with the attachments on the hipband so you can add thigh bands as an option in the future?

    Tobbe You spend too much time trying to figure out how I think and feel about men in chastity. I only answered the question. 🙂

    So, what do you think about men in chastity? What doypu think about then as well as about what they shall do?

    Verrouille
    Well, as you are a bdsm-like couple you might need it one day. But the girls are right, there's no need to wear them for the purpose of being chaste. Just for the purpose of being punished or whatever. (Or for the puepose of forced feminisation of course, too)

          Max9 I've said it before, but may have to repeat myself. I believe that the chastity belt is only suitable for women. Men can have a belt or cage as a kinky thing during a shorter session, if they so want to use chastity. Never 24/7...

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            before i came to this page, i thought that serious male chastity does not exist 🤣

              Angelina

              I think it is not totally related to chastity but can be used as a tool related to it.For example,to use it only if he fights too much against his cage/belt,if his girlfriend don't like it.

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                  Me too!

                  Vanessa
                  Perhaps should my new belt be equipped with that option. Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.

                        Vanessa

                        it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character

                        Verrouille Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.

                        but you will also fight with thigh bands and in contrast to women, thigh bands have no effect on men's chances of success

                        [deleted] but are you saying there's a psychological effect too? Do they help to accept wearing the belt or fight against it less in some way?

                        it has a psychological effect, definitely.
                        everyone would answer your other two questions differently

                                Verrouille Perhaps should my new belt be equipped with that option. Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.

                                I think it is impossible to not fight it,even knowing it would be punished with the thigh bands,however.

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                                In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...

                                Angelina it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character

                                Even if you wear these,too?

                                        Vanessa In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...

                                        it is exactly the same with me, I have never fought less through the thigh bands

                                        Vanessa Even if you wear these,too?

                                        for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity

                                        [deleted] that they can feel calmed by restraints

                                        i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry 😂

                                                Angelina i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry

                                                Maybe some people just calm down somehow because they know they have absolutely no chance to cheat on the belt with the restraints, so they give up fighting and calm down by that.
                                                And others just feel comfortable in restraint and calm down by that.

                                                    Max9 so they give up fighting and calm down by that.

                                                    I think I am too ambitious for that, when I want something, I give everything 😂

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                                                        Angelina Just like me, when I'm very involved with something. I often don't give too much effort when it's about something I can also live without, but when I really want something I fight limitless.

                                                            Max9 but when I really want something I fight limitless.

                                                            and to cheat my belt (without my father noticing), is one of the goals 😉

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                                                                I think how we react depend on our personality.

                                                                But I'm not sure it would have one of these effect for a man,however.

                                                                Angelina for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity

                                                                So,you don't consider it as part of your chastity?

                                                                Angelina

                                                                Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...🙁

                                                                        Max9

                                                                        thanks, but it will probably be impossible

                                                                        Vanessa So,you don't consider it as part of your chastity?

                                                                        for women yes, but not for men 😂

                                                                        Vanessa Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...🙁

                                                                        🙁

                                                                                Angelina it will probably be impossible

                                                                                Probably right...🙁

                                                                                Angelina for women yes, but not for men 😂

                                                                                Understandable,yes.

                                                                                    Angelina and to cheat my belt (without my father noticing), is one of the goals

                                                                                    Vanessa Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...

                                                                                    Can I ask why an idea that seems obvious doesn't work? I don't remember anyone suggesting it in one of Esteban's threads and I'm curious.

                                                                                    If that's OK, what thread should I ask in?