Thighbands for men
it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character
Verrouille Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.
but you will also fight with thigh bands and in contrast to women, thigh bands have no effect on men's chances of success
[deleted] but are you saying there's a psychological effect too? Do they help to accept wearing the belt or fight against it less in some way?
it has a psychological effect, definitely.
everyone would answer your other two questions differently
Verrouille Perhaps should my new belt be equipped with that option. Even if I'm belted, my girlfriend hates that I struggle with my belt, which happens necessary sometimes.
I think it is impossible to not fight it,even knowing it would be punished with the thigh bands,however.
In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...
Angelina it can be used as punishment, but for me it has only a bdsm character
Even if you wear these,too?
Vanessa In my case I only fight the thigh bands in addition to the chastity belt...
it is exactly the same with me, I have never fought less through the thigh bands
Vanessa Even if you wear these,too?
for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity
[deleted] that they can feel calmed by restraints
i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry 
Angelina i am a calm person, but this makes me feel more angry
Maybe some people just calm down somehow because they know they have absolutely no chance to cheat on the belt with the restraints, so they give up fighting and calm down by that.
And others just feel comfortable in restraint and calm down by that.
I think how we react depend on our personality.
But I'm not sure it would have one of these effect for a man,however.
Angelina for what, in my eyes it has nothing to do with chastity
So,you don't consider it as part of your chastity?
Similar for me,trying to find a way to cheat on my chastity belt while my parents don't notice.Without success until now...
Can I ask why an idea that seems obvious doesn't work? I don't remember anyone suggesting it in one of Esteban's threads and I'm curious.
If that's OK, what thread should I ask in?
Angelina That's not what I meant.
If I was in your situation, there is something I would try as soon as I discovered that my fingers wouldn't fit under the belt. I don't remember anyone suggesting it, so I assume it's obvious that it doesn't work but I don't know why.
If I describe it, would you tell me why it doesn't work?
Vanessa Thank you. Before I post, I'll read through it again to make sure I didn't forget anything that was already answered.
The first thing I'd try after a finger is a long narrow piece of cloth. I did the IKEA thing because we're having language trouble.
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Angelina Now we're getting to what makes me curious, because, if the stimulation was too weak, I wouldn't give up. I'd get a non-elastic sweatband made of terrycloth or do some arts and crafts and keep a long narrow scrap of corduroy.
If that wasn't enough, I'd try adding some decorative patches or hand embroidery to the headband to add more texture.
I saw catherine98 had trouble with too much friction. Maybe a non-elastic sweatband made of the kind of poplin used in dress shirts (we call it broadcloth here), with a pretty print on it, and then a patch of terrycloth sewed to the inside only where the forehead is. Claim it's to soak up sweat and position it to only add friction where you need it.
If there's still too much friction, maybe feed another piece of something thin under the parts of the belt where you want less friction, so the cloth can rub against that instead of your skin, or find something like skin cream that you can safely use as lubricant for the parts that don't need the friction and then wash out in the bathroom sink.
Am I more dedicated to this idea or is there something I don't understand?