While this thread is interesting is that we get to see how people think about wearing chastity devices, the whole concept of rules, as agreed to by a community of people, does seem a little silly.
If a person in a chastity belt keeps the keys then the "rules: are whatever that person wants and (can change constantly). So why bother? 🤣
If there is an interested and committed keyholder, then the rules are whatever they want them to be. Instead of "he who has the gold makes the rules" - it literally becomes "he who has the keys makes the rules" At that point the wearer becomes either willing, reluctant or unwilling.
I suppose the wearer then becomes deliriously happy, or unhappy or somewhere in between 🤣
Is there more? Am I missing something?