if someone else have both keys. what is the scope of having to different keys instead of one for bot locks?
the key ownre will unlock himself the right lock he/she decides without giving key to owner.
suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter
strictfather if someone else have both keys. what is the scope of having to different keys instead of one for bot locks?
Some models just don't have an option to lock both shield with the same lock (long shield). Beside it I don't see any reasons for it.
strictfather
I try to say, that in some situation, girl can ask parents for the secondary key it it was neccessary.
strictfather A question: are lock keys the same or are them 2 different keys?
Same key for both.I've never the secondary shield off,and my parents have a key each,with a spare one in a locked box in case of need(plastic lock with serial number,so I can cut it easily,but it would be noticed easily too).
I know my parents sometimes clean it during the supervised shower,and they have only one key.
5 months later
Hello,
I was reading you for few months. My daughter is a little older than 16, but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her. I doubt it was even possible, but now I'm pretty confident in it. I tend to go @Laura 's parents way and order an abstinence belt, but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts. What are the pros and cons?
HHelen Laure is 28 I believe is she that old already because that is likely too late to start this. Is she is young like still under 18 I would order everything you can now because you might need it and it is cheeper usually to buy it together. Some girls night need no masturbating if they rebellion or if they have a personality that gets addicted easily, you might need the bra and bands for punishment's or to stop her getting pleasure under the belt. I would start small and slow and see how she reacts and if she clearly can't Handel masturbating and not wanting to have sex then you can go to prevent pleasure as well.
HHelen My daughter is a little older than 16, but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her.
Pretty logical, and it is a good age, but... Have you talked with her about this? It is not so easy as close a door. A chastity belt has deep implications. Think about this and in your family relationships.
It depends on your family logical and agreements with your girl. What do you understand for sex? Do you accept, both of you, she can touch herself?
There are lot of questions, and it depends of what you think is acceptable.
My opinion is well known, I vote usually for chastity belts, but in first position is your daughter happiness.
Natescage that is likely too late to start this
I think it's not too late to start in any age if there is a reason for it. And since @HHelen has an unwed daughter that's the good reason
HHelen Why can't she detach it if it's detachable?
Because it's securely locked to the belt with the same or another lock
HHelen but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her.
Welcome to the forum. That's the right place to talk about it.
HHelen but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts.
Secondary shield must be always on, because it prevents not only masturbation, but other fornication.
Ines then why use bra and bands? To prevent stimulation and belt fighting?
Natescage Laure is 28 I believe is she that old already because that is likely too late to start this.
She is a little younger than @Laura ... when she started wearing a belt 
Natescage you might need the bra and bands for punishment's
No. I don't consider it as punishment.
Ines Have you talked with her about this?
Not yet, I would like to be clear first.
Ines It depends on your family logical and agreements with your girl.
Like the topicstarter I can call myself as strictmother.
Ines What do you understand for sex?
I thought it's obvious That's what boys usually do with girls.
Ines Do you accept, both of you, she can touch herself?
I don't like it, but I think it is inevitable.
Laura Because it's securely locked to the belt with the same or another lock
Oh, I'm so stupid. But please forgive me, I never dealt with chastity belts before.
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HHelen I thought it's obvious
I mean, if you understand sex as only penetrative sex or you consider sex too touching herself, petting with her boyfriend, intimate kisses, oral...
HHelen I don't like it, but I think it is inevitable.
I think you are talking of your personal point of view, if you agree that she is allowed to touch herself, then, of course abstinence belt seems your option. This is a belt without secondary shield and without bands. A chastity belt, with secondary shield and bands is totally secure for the girl and avoid not only penetrative sex.
HHelen No. I don't consider it as punishment.
Good approach.
I think most important here is, when you have clear what is every belt, talk with your daughter about targets, limits and releases.