suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Renita

strictfather A question: are lock keys the same or are them 2 different keys?

Different. This is the meaning that a girl can remove the secondary shield, but not the belt.

Ines What do you think?

I agree with you. The key to the belt from the parents, the key to the shield from the girl

Ines

Renita I agree with you. The key to the belt from the parents, the key to the shield from the girl

😅, no, no, no, Renita😂 I have never said it! Ever! 😂
In my opinión: keys to parents (all) and locks for us!
I just say that if in a determinate situation, would be neccessary for some reason that the girl have to open her secondary shield, it could be done but mantaining belt secure.
For my own mindful wellfare, holder of key must be a trust adult, mostly parents, never ever us.
Maybe with girls without trust key holder can Be different, but I just can speak of my sensations.

strictfather

if someone else have both keys. what is the scope of having to different keys instead of one for bot locks?
the key ownre will unlock himself the right lock he/she decides without giving key to owner.

Laura

strictfather if someone else have both keys. what is the scope of having to different keys instead of one for bot locks?

Some models just don't have an option to lock both shield with the same lock (long shield). Beside it I don't see any reasons for it.

Ines

strictfather
I try to say, that in some situation, girl can ask parents for the secondary key it it was neccessary.

Laura

Ines girl can ask parents for the secondary key it it was neccessary.

But girl can ask them to unlock it rather than key.

Ines

Laura
And I think that less in some strange situation, which can pass rarely, it is the normal think.
If I need something, I must ask for it. Is my more liked way.
But other situation is not totaly disposable

Vanessa

strictfather A question: are lock keys the same or are them 2 different keys?

Same key for both.I've never the secondary shield off,and my parents have a key each,with a spare one in a locked box in case of need(plastic lock with serial number,so I can cut it easily,but it would be noticed easily too).

Laura

Vanessa Same key for both

How do you know? Have you tried it?
I never held my keys in my hands.

Vanessa

I know my parents sometimes clean it during the supervised shower,and they have only one key.

Megan

Vanessa they have only one key.

So you bought two of the same high end golden model? That is kind of cool I guess. You are carrying $ with you all the time.

HHelen

Hello,
I was reading you for few months. My daughter is a little older than 16, but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her. I doubt it was even possible, but now I'm pretty confident in it. I tend to go @Laura 's parents way and order an abstinence belt, but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts. What are the pros and cons?

Laura

HHelen My daughter is a little older than 16

How old is she?

HHelen but I'm still not sure

Order a belt with detachable secondary shield and you can decide later on

Ines

HHelen

HHelen My daughter is a little older than 16, but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her.

Pretty logical, and it is a good age, but... Have you talked with her about this? It is not so easy as close a door. A chastity belt has deep implications. Think about this and in your family relationships.

HHelen I tend to go @Laura 's parents way and order an abstinence belt, but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts.

It depends on your family logical and agreements with your girl. What do you understand for sex? Do you accept, both of you, she can touch herself?
There are lot of questions, and it depends of what you think is acceptable.

My opinion is well known, I vote usually for chastity belts, but in first position is your daughter happiness.

Renita

HHelen but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her.

Welcome to the forum. That's the right place to talk about it.

HHelen but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts.

Secondary shield must be always on, because it prevents not only masturbation, but other fornication.

Vanessa

HHelen

Welcome.

Does she agree to wear one?

Mainly both prevent sex,but an abstinence belt allows her to masturbate(and so,she still feel orgasms).If the secondary shield is always off,she could have oral sex too,so she may have it off only when sure she won't be alone with a boyfriend or girlfriend.

HHelen Why can't she detach it if it's detachable? Sorry for the stupid question.

It is attached with a lock when it is on.Without the key,she won't be able to take it off.

Ines in first position is your daughter happiness.

Similar for me(even if I'm against chastity belts!😉 ).And only if she agrees willingly.

Ines Use chastity belt as punishment is the worst thing you can do. It will make her daughter always have bad feelings about belt, and this the last thing that need a mother-daughter relationship.

I agree.It was used as a punishment at first for me,and I hated it.And,if she punish her this way,she would lose every possibility to convince her to wear a chastity belt willignly,as she would always associate chastity belt with punishment.

Natescage

Chastity bra prevents to stimulate the breasts(no sexual feelings,and some women can orgasm this way).Thigh bands restrict the movement and add some(unneeded)security to the chastity belt.

HHelen No. I don't consider it as punishment.

Do you plan to use these?

HHelen Not yet, I would like to be clear first.

Would she be able to choose to wear one or not,or would it be only your decision?

HHelen I don't like it, but I think it is inevitable.

A chastity belt with the secondary shield always on would prevent her to masturbate.But it would be harder for her,and I don't think it is necessary,if it is not excessive.

Ines I mean, if you understand sex as only penetrative sex or you consider sex too touching herself, petting with her boyfriend, intimate kisses, oral...

Good question.

Ines I think you are talking of your personal point of view, if you agree that she is allowed to touch herself, then, of course abstinence belt seems your option. This is a belt without secondary shield and without bands. A chastity belt, with secondary shield and bands is totally secure for the girl and avoid not only penetrative sex.

If she doesn't allow any sex,but allow her to touch herself,she should use a belt with a detachable secondary shield.Or unlock the belt and leave her alone in her room regularly(like for @catherine98).

HHelen

Laura How old is she?

A little younger than you 🙂

Laura Order a belt with detachable secondary shield and you can decide later on

Why can't she detach it if it's detachable? Sorry for the stupid question.

Natescage

HHelen Laure is 28 I believe is she that old already because that is likely too late to start this. Is she is young like still under 18 I would order everything you can now because you might need it and it is cheeper usually to buy it together. Some girls night need no masturbating if they rebellion or if they have a personality that gets addicted easily, you might need the bra and bands for punishment's or to stop her getting pleasure under the belt. I would start small and slow and see how she reacts and if she clearly can't Handel masturbating and not wanting to have sex then you can go to prevent pleasure as well.

Laura

Natescage that is likely too late to start this

I think it's not too late to start in any age if there is a reason for it. And since @HHelen has an unwed daughter that's the good reason

HHelen Why can't she detach it if it's detachable?

Because it's securely locked to the belt with the same or another lock

Ines

Natescage you might need the bra and bands for punishment

Use chastity belt as punishment is the worst thing you can do. It will make her daughter always have bad feelings about belt, and this the last thing that need a mother-daughter relationship.

HHelen

Natescage Laure is 28 I believe is she that old already because that is likely too late to start this.

She is a little younger than @Laura ... when she started wearing a belt 🙂

Natescage you might need the bra and bands for punishment's

No. I don't consider it as punishment.

Ines Have you talked with her about this?

Not yet, I would like to be clear first.

Ines It depends on your family logical and agreements with your girl.

Like the topicstarter I can call myself as strictmother.

Ines What do you understand for sex?

I thought it's obvious 🙂 That's what boys usually do with girls.

Ines Do you accept, both of you, she can touch herself?

I don't like it, but I think it is inevitable.

Laura Because it's securely locked to the belt with the same or another lock

Oh, I'm so stupid. But please forgive me, I never dealt with chastity belts before.

Natescage

Ines then why use bra and bands? To prevent stimulation and belt fighting?

Megan

Renita Secondary shield must be always on, because it prevents not only masturbation, but other fornication.

Some models are much to narrow but would allow the girl to use a narrow massage when the shield is removed. But ut still needs to be wide enough to fit comfortably and have good ventilation

Ines

Natescage
Of course some parents can use this way, but for me, is the best way to distance parents and daughters.
I always say that with some regimes that you can read here, I would be or bitter or directly in social affairs.

Megan But ut still needs to be wide enough to fit comfortably and have good ventilation

And the pinches between shields, maybe can be worst, I think.

Ines

HHelen I thought it's obvious 🙂 That's what boys usually do with girls.

I mean, if you understand sex as only penetrative sex or you consider sex too touching herself, petting with her boyfriend, intimate kisses, oral...

HHelen I don't like it, but I think it is inevitable.

I think you are talking of your personal point of view, if you agree that she is allowed to touch herself, then, of course abstinence belt seems your option. This is a belt without secondary shield and without bands. A chastity belt, with secondary shield and bands is totally secure for the girl and avoid not only penetrative sex.

HHelen No. I don't consider it as punishment.

Good approach.

I think most important here is, when you have clear what is every belt, talk with your daughter about targets, limits and releases.

Laura

HHelen but I think it is inevitable

With secondary shield it's not inevitable anymore. Only you decide if she is allowed to touch herself or not

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