Renita

i also have a separate secondary sign, may be that it is like with you but my father said halt always the belt is a special design

    In my opinión is highly advisable, at least 2 keys.
    One for the main belt, and at least other for rest of locks I do not like handle keys, but this way if it is necessary a girl can use a key in a very concrete situation but the whole concept objetivo being belted is not broken.
    What do you think?

      strictfather A question: are lock keys the same or are them 2 different keys?

      Different. This is the meaning that a girl can remove the secondary shield, but not the belt.

      Ines What do you think?

      I agree with you. The key to the belt from the parents, the key to the shield from the girl

      • Ines replied to this.

            Renita I agree with you. The key to the belt from the parents, the key to the shield from the girl

            😅, no, no, no, Renita😂 I have never said it! Ever! 😂
            In my opinión: keys to parents (all) and locks for us!
            I just say that if in a determinate situation, would be neccessary for some reason that the girl have to open her secondary shield, it could be done but mantaining belt secure.
            For my own mindful wellfare, holder of key must be a trust adult, mostly parents, never ever us.
            Maybe with girls without trust key holder can Be different, but I just can speak of my sensations.

              if someone else have both keys. what is the scope of having to different keys instead of one for bot locks?
              the key ownre will unlock himself the right lock he/she decides without giving key to owner.

                strictfather if someone else have both keys. what is the scope of having to different keys instead of one for bot locks?

                Some models just don't have an option to lock both shield with the same lock (long shield). Beside it I don't see any reasons for it.

                  strictfather
                  I try to say, that in some situation, girl can ask parents for the secondary key it it was neccessary.

                      Ines girl can ask parents for the secondary key it it was neccessary.

                      But girl can ask them to unlock it rather than key.

                      • Ines replied to this.

                          Laura
                          And I think that less in some strange situation, which can pass rarely, it is the normal think.
                          If I need something, I must ask for it. Is my more liked way.
                          But other situation is not totaly disposable

                            strictfather A question: are lock keys the same or are them 2 different keys?

                            Same key for both.I've never the secondary shield off,and my parents have a key each,with a spare one in a locked box in case of need(plastic lock with serial number,so I can cut it easily,but it would be noticed easily too).

                                Vanessa Same key for both

                                How do you know? Have you tried it?
                                I never held my keys in my hands.

                                  I know my parents sometimes clean it during the supervised shower,and they have only one key.

                                    5 months later

                                    Hello,
                                    I was reading you for few months. My daughter is a little older than 16, but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her. I doubt it was even possible, but now I'm pretty confident in it. I tend to go @Laura 's parents way and order an abstinence belt, but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts. What are the pros and cons?

                                      HHelen My daughter is a little older than 16

                                      How old is she?

                                      HHelen but I'm still not sure

                                      Order a belt with detachable secondary shield and you can decide later on

                                            Laura How old is she?

                                            A little younger than you 🙂

                                            Laura Order a belt with detachable secondary shield and you can decide later on

                                            Why can't she detach it if it's detachable? Sorry for the stupid question.

                                                  HHelen Laure is 28 I believe is she that old already because that is likely too late to start this. Is she is young like still under 18 I would order everything you can now because you might need it and it is cheeper usually to buy it together. Some girls night need no masturbating if they rebellion or if they have a personality that gets addicted easily, you might need the bra and bands for punishment's or to stop her getting pleasure under the belt. I would start small and slow and see how she reacts and if she clearly can't Handel masturbating and not wanting to have sex then you can go to prevent pleasure as well.

                                                      HHelen

                                                      HHelen My daughter is a little older than 16, but I still want to prevent premarital sex for her.

                                                      Pretty logical, and it is a good age, but... Have you talked with her about this? It is not so easy as close a door. A chastity belt has deep implications. Think about this and in your family relationships.

                                                      HHelen I tend to go @Laura 's parents way and order an abstinence belt, but I'm still not sure, because most parents prefer complete chastity belts.

                                                      It depends on your family logical and agreements with your girl. What do you understand for sex? Do you accept, both of you, she can touch herself?
                                                      There are lot of questions, and it depends of what you think is acceptable.

                                                      My opinion is well known, I vote usually for chastity belts, but in first position is your daughter happiness.

                                                              Natescage you might need the bra and bands for punishment

                                                              Use chastity belt as punishment is the worst thing you can do. It will make her daughter always have bad feelings about belt, and this the last thing that need a mother-daughter relationship.

                                                                  Natescage that is likely too late to start this

                                                                  I think it's not too late to start in any age if there is a reason for it. And since @HHelen has an unwed daughter that's the good reason

                                                                  HHelen Why can't she detach it if it's detachable?

                                                                  Because it's securely locked to the belt with the same or another lock