fear of orgasm: why?
Ines I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles, a fear that they won’t give up their investment that easily. I applaud Jen’s assertiveness against it.
Saintprudence
My words were figurative sense, I mean it should be away of her until she decides, that if some day she decides use it.
And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use
Saintprudence I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles
I don't know this sword reference. I'd think about it less if I knew it was gone, but I don't worry, I mean I never like conflict but it would be easier than the first time
Ines And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use
Yep no way
Jen Sword of Damocles is a Greek mythological reference. It means a dangerous thing suspended over your head that could fall and strike you at any moment. In broader use, it refers to an ever-present threat that could re-emerge any time, such as someone getting the idea of that belt back in their heads. I’m glad you stand firm!
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Jen I don't know this sword reference.
A short explanation is at Wikipedia. Is worth to read. I didn't know the details and it makes is more clear for me.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damocles
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Right.
But it could be harder to resist.
HHelen Possibly.
Not if she already said it before wearing the belt,and before knowing she would have to wear one.
HHelen She will start communicating with new people.
I doubt it would make her change her mind so easily.Is she very easily influenced?
Saintprudence a fear that they won’t give up their investment that easily.
I think so,too...
Ines she decides use it.
I doubt it!
Angelina no if the situation was like this then i probably wouldn't stay a virgin
Logical!
strictfather why do you think parents do not want their children to have an orgasm and prefer to prevent it by using a chastity belt or other ways?
It's not just about orgasms.
A young teenager shouldn't be allowed to drink alcohol, but it's not because she would feel drunk, it's because it's wrong to drink alcohol at such age, even if it's not enough to get drunk. Feeling drunk isn't the problem, drinking alcohol is. It's ok to let her have a very small sip if she's curious what it tastes like, but nothing more than that until she's older.
It's the same with orgasms. Orgasms aren't the problem, touching that area is. It's ok to let her wash herself there while taking a shower, otherwise it should be kept inaccessible until older.
shinydiamond77 disagree all. Alchahol has a chemical impact on development, it is actually bad if you have too much too young.
i disagree. alcohol has a proven harmful influence, especially on children and teenagers (even on some adults). touching the intimate area or mastubation or sex does not have this proven bad influence
Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.
Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.
shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.
I have to agree here.
shinydiamond77
I disagree with everything.
shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow.
I didn't say that, I just don't think the comparison is right.
shinydiamond77 Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.
I disagree
shinydiamond77 Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.
did you have bad experiences with sex or masturbation as a teenager or why do you think that? do you think that your experiences are a reason why your daughter has to wear the belt now?