Daphne a good call, though you can also start with just a few. If you really want to go with a school uniform for college, I recommend getting a few of the same one and being truly uniform by wearing it every day of class. Otherwise it’s not really a uniform! (And on days you don’t feel like wearing it, it’s a reminder to you that you wanted a disciplined lifestyle. Kind of like the many days I hate wearing this belt!)

    Daphne But also, this is important: speaking as one trans woman to another as opposed to a belted wife speaking to a potentially belted wife: It’s okay to experiment. You may find the cage not to your liking, and that’s all right. You may find the 50s wife look invigorating, and one day decide you really just want to dress like a hippie chick for a while. This is all perfectly all right. You’ve grown up with limited clothing choices and now you feel free to try others, and that means you can experiment, mix and match. You’re young, you don’t have to commit to anything. One week in a belt and a week off? Sure, why not. Uniform one day, a suit and tie the next, and a pantsuit after that? Also okay. You’re getting to indulge in self-discovery that you’ve probably dreamed of for years but never got to try until you
    embraced your identity. You dream of a forced lifestyle in belt and bands but don’t let that deter you if your dreams change or even if you just get a bit tired of it. (Trust me as someone who WAS forced through mental abuse not to self-touch! It’s not pleasant.) Have as much fun as you can while learning who you are 🙂.

        Daphne It is indeed a fine and virtuous lifestyle to choose! And you and I have the benefit of choice rather than the way previous generations of women simply had to suck it up.

        What are you looking for in an eventual key holder, by the way? What is your ideal future spouse?

            Daphne I hope you have more detail in mind than that in the long run! You want someone who also has your best interests at heart and keeps you locked from a place of love and responsibility and not just control. Unfortunately, our type can attract abusive partners and it’s good to be on the lookout. But the right person can be very caring and protective.

              Daphne choosing a key holder is often as vital as choosing a spouse. You’re granting them a lot of power over you. Which you already know; it’s just that strictness of key holding is not the only virtue to seek out. You want someone who entirely supports your 50s wife thing as my own wife does for mine. And who believes in your goals enough to hold you to them.

                Are people just agreeing with what they think is the most extreme thing?
                Sort of the limit of democracy and the internet???

                  Daphne Everyone is voting for permanent? There have been some women who get nonremovable piercing shields and I'm not sure about those.
                  I have worn nonstop for well over months but I really know my hygiene.

                      Megan

                      What i mean with permanent is 24/7 wear with emergency and hygiëne breaks

                        Megan ah, I see now. Yeah, I guess that would be a little weird until you saw the definition! I’ve seen enough people use “permanent” as a synonym for “24/7, minus cleaning times” that it didn’t jump out to me.

                            Daphne very correct! You can wash a uniform midweek but a week’s worth of uniforms is most proper.

                              Megan

                              permanent means without mastubation breaks. hygienic breaks are also very important for permenant wearers.

                                  Angelina i'm sorry for you, but i wouldn't give the keys to a stranger. there are boxes where you can keep the keys and set a time when the box should open again, maybe that would be an idea, at least until you have found a suitable key holder.

                                  you can also enable a person to open them via app... if @Daphne wants a heyholder, that would be an option.

                                      well, this is an interesting thing to read after a few days off! Daphne, you should probably know that anything Pru says is just really how she wants to be treated. Or how she would have liked it in college before we met. Though you both do seem to be similar so maybe it works for you. No, I won't hold your keys.