Daphne But also, this is important: speaking as one trans woman to another as opposed to a belted wife speaking to a potentially belted wife: It’s okay to experiment. You may find the cage not to your liking, and that’s all right. You may find the 50s wife look invigorating, and one day decide you really just want to dress like a hippie chick for a while. This is all perfectly all right. You’ve grown up with limited clothing choices and now you feel free to try others, and that means you can experiment, mix and match. You’re young, you don’t have to commit to anything. One week in a belt and a week off? Sure, why not. Uniform one day, a suit and tie the next, and a pantsuit after that? Also okay. You’re getting to indulge in self-discovery that you’ve probably dreamed of for years but never got to try until you
embraced your identity. You dream of a forced lifestyle in belt and bands but don’t let that deter you if your dreams change or even if you just get a bit tired of it. (Trust me as someone who WAS forced through mental abuse not to self-touch! It’s not pleasant.) Have as much fun as you can while learning who you are 🙂.
