Daphne It is indeed a fine and virtuous lifestyle to choose! And you and I have the benefit of choice rather than the way previous generations of women simply had to suck it up.
What are you looking for in an eventual key holder, by the way? What is your ideal future spouse?
Well someone that won't be weak and release me from chastity after a little bit
Daphne I hope you have more detail in mind than that in the long run! You want someone who also has your best interests at heart and keeps you locked from a place of love and responsibility and not just control. Unfortunately, our type can attract abusive partners and it’s good to be on the lookout. But the right person can be very caring and protective.
Daphne choosing a key holder is often as vital as choosing a spouse. You’re granting them a lot of power over you. Which you already know; it’s just that strictness of key holding is not the only virtue to seek out. You want someone who entirely supports your 50s wife thing as my own wife does for mine. And who believes in your goals enough to hold you to them.
Are people just agreeing with what they think is the most extreme thing?
Sort of the limit of democracy and the internet???
Megan well, I’m trying to counsel realistic expectations here 
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Megan ah, I see now. Yeah, I guess that would be a little weird until you saw the definition! I’ve seen enough people use “permanent” as a synonym for “24/7, minus cleaning times” that it didn’t jump out to me.
But yeah I'll have to get 5 pieces of the same uniform then. And then 2 weekend dresses
Daphne very correct! You can wash a uniform midweek but a week’s worth of uniforms is most proper.
Angelina i'm sorry for you, but i wouldn't give the keys to a stranger. there are boxes where you can keep the keys and set a time when the box should open again, maybe that would be an idea, at least until you have found a suitable key holder.
you can also enable a person to open them via app... if @Daphne wants a heyholder, that would be an option.
well, this is an interesting thing to read after a few days off! Daphne, you should probably know that anything Pru says is just really how she wants to be treated. Or how she would have liked it in college before we met. Though you both do seem to be similar so maybe it works for you. No, I won't hold your keys.
Saintprudence use “permanent” as a synonym for “24/7, minus cleaning times”
Right.And emergency key.
Right.
