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Max9 How may it do that?
If you masturbate so often that you can no longer do other important things or you can no longer concentrate on other important things because you are only thinking about the next time.
Joh sure and everyone has to decide it is a problem or not.
That's right, I just want to say it.
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Nate It was because I tried to pull off the cage
It was logical to try it.
Nate although I agree it's normal to fight it
Totally.
Nate they needed to make sure I would remain locked.
I think it is secure enough,even if you fight it.
Nate The releases are now less frequent because my boyfriend showed me that I can "milk" myself anally using prostate and he lets me to do that quite a lot. By this, I can empty my balls (which is needed for health) without having an orgasm.
Why does he want to prevent you to have an orgasm?
Nate His parents are very strict, compared to mine.
I think your parents are already pretty severe.
Not likely,in this case.
Yeah, I was just a matter of time until I eventually tried it. Well, I lasted exactly 5 days from when I was locked until I tried to pull it off for the first time. I was so stupid to try it maybe two or three more times with always the same result: the cage stayed on and I got spanked.
My boyfriend says that I'm a lot nicer and more motivated when I stay without orgasm longer. Since he showed me how to milk the prostate, there's no need to give me full orgasms every time.
I don't think they are, in my case - they had a reason for it, didn't force me in the cage, allowed to relieve myself every month and even gave the key to my boyfriend. Jake's case might too harsh, as they locked him just because he was popular with the girls and was moving out to study.
Nate Yeah, I was just a matter of time until I eventually tried it. Well, I lasted exactly 5 days from when I was locked until I tried to pull it off for the first time. I was so stupid to try it maybe two or three more times with always the same result: the cage stayed on and I got spanked.
We all try,even willingly wearer.Not fair you got spanked for it...
Nate My boyfriend says that I'm a lot nicer and more motivated when I stay without orgasm longer. Since he showed me how to milk the prostate, there's no need to give me full orgasms every time.
Sorry for you...
Nate didn't force me in the cage, allowed to relieve myself every month and even gave the key to my boyfriend
These parts are good,yes.
markules - Sure .
They came with a cage and explained that I was masturbating way too much, despite we already talked about it several times. Also, if I was caught doing it somewhere like school, they could kick me out for this etc. I knew they were right about it, so I agreed. Of course, I questioned my decision for a long time
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It was on a first floorball practice after I got caged. Since I was going there right after school, I forgot to tell my parents in the morning. I realized this when I was standing before the hall and I obviously couldn't skip the practice, so I thought nobody sees through my underwear and I will shower at home. Well, guess what - my teammate yanked my underwear down (prank). Luckily, I discovered that way one of my other teammates (Robin) was locked too, and I never had to hide my cage there again
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I release him in the middle of the month and my parents at the end when we're home. That does not necessarily mean he gets an orgasm though.
He wears HolyTrainer v3 Nano; it was my first cage before I upgraded to Small. However, we're considering the new HolyTrainer v4, maybe in the metal version.
Nate Thank you for answering my questions in such detail. That is exactly the kind of information I need before I start my own chastity journey.
- How did your parents find out that you were masturbating?
- Does that mean that your whole floorball team knows about your chastity device? How do you feel about that? How did your floorball colleagues react?
- What benefits to you perceive from being in chastity?
- Why would you upgrade to metal? Is plastic not secure enough?
Thank you very much (again)
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- They caught me several times. Also, since I shared a room with my brother, they probably asked him too.
- Yeah, they do. It was very embarrasing, but once they seen it, you can't make them unsee. They of course wanted to see and asked me what it is. They would learn, eventually, so I just told them. The only question I dodged was why I was wearing it.
- It's mainly that I have more time for other activities (studying, workout ...) and I don't have to worry about being caught anymore. Also, I think being horny while doing sports can lead to better results.
- That's because HolyTrainers aren't exactly plastic. When you heat it (like in a hot bath), you can change its shape to some extent. That way, it adapts to your penis and testicles, but I pesonally hate that.
Nate That's because HolyTrainers aren't exactly plastic. When you heat it (like in a hot bath), you can change its shape to some extent. That way, it adapts to your penis and testicles, but I pesonally hate that.
That's a question of personal preference, of course Personally, I love their shape.
Nate Hello Nate, I'd have a bunch of further questions if I may:
- When you were first locked in your chastity cage, how long did it take you to adjust to the cage?
- Do you think being released once a month is enough? Why once a month and not less/more regular?
- Why do you not release your brother more often?
- Was there a moment when you were glad you were in chastity?
- Would you recommend that I gave my keys to my parents?
Nate It was on a first floorball practice
I'd die of embarrassment in such a situation, but yeah, the idea of never having to hide my belt is very appealing. I wish chastity was more mainstream just so going to the doctor, or though scanners etc just wouldn't be a big deal.
Nate They caught me several times
Again, this must have been really embarrassing, but in the end, if I'd got a chastity device out of it, I'd have been happy.
Knowing what I know about myself now, I wish I'd had a belt much earlier.
markules Sure
I was first locked when I was 15. Don't remember the exact date though.
My parents took a guess about sizing the first time and unsurprisingly it was too big. We ordered a smaller one the next day. I've eventually grown back to the bigger one, which still I wear today.I don't know why it became about once a month in the first place. My parents said that, and I accepted since I wasn't released at all the first few months. Now that my bf has the keys and I know about "milking", it has become about once per two months.
My parents gave me Jake's key for hygiene reasons because we live far away and only go home once a month. I was told it's for cleaning and that I can give him one more release each month (but I don't really do that), so he gets his release once a month at home.
It wasn't a single moment, but it's rather continual. I'm glad that I ended up being locked. I stopped focusing on masturbation and being horny made the sports better.
I don't know your parents and your relationship with them, so it's hard to say. If they are okay with these things, then sure, why not? Regardless, I would definitely recommend you to give the keys to someone, whether it's a trusted friend or parents.
Also, Jake and I finally ordered the HolyTrainers v4 (same sizes), and we decided to try the metal version.
Yeah, I absolutely died of embarrassment (but luckily got resurrected ). It might seem weird to say, but I'm actually glad it happened. The other guys were cool with it (although they did sometimes tease me), and I didn't have to hide the cage and shower at home. Second, by not asking my parents to unlock me, I got used to sporting in the cage, which is not only great, but it also doesn't give me the opportunity to cheat.
Of course, being caught masturbating was a bit embarrassing, but I didn't think of it as a big deal ... until I got locked. Well, I still got mixed feelings about the cage (guess nobody loves the cage completely), but they are mostly positive; I also wish my parents locked me a year or two earlier.
Nate Hey Nate, thank you so much for your reply in such detail.
You wrote that there is another boy in your team who is locked. What do you know about him?
- How did your boyfriend react when he learned that you were locked in chastity?
- How did your parents catch you when you tried to pull out of the cage?
- How often do you milk your prostate?