vyktoryah I am not an expert and can't offer any help in your situation. But masturbating is not the cause of your problems. You might be using it as an escape, sure, but to me it appears it's your environment that is causing your unhappiness.

There is one thing I would like to point out, and it's that your world now is very insular. It might seem impossible right now, but changing your environment is key to changing your mindset. This might take years, but believe me, that's not as long as it seems!

I take it you have not experienced much outside of your bedroom, your school, family, town, whatever. The world is a much, much bigger place than you can possibly imagine. Travelling might be difficult now, but it won't stay that way forever. Have you ever wanted to see ummm... I don't know... the Pyramids? Machu Picchu? A beach in Costa Rica? A jungle in Laos? What about Australia?

The point I want to make is that your current situation is not making you happy, so work towards changing it (however long that may take). Make a goal to be somewhere completely different in three years. Take a shit job in retail. Flip some burgers. Make a website. Learn how to mix drinks. All of these things will give you skills you can use later in life, almost anywhere in the world.

Travelling won't solve all your problems, but at least it's something different. I don't mean a Contiki tour where you get drunk for two weeks. Save $15,000, take a plane to ____ and never look back. There is so much more to the world than what you know, and it's all yours to explore. Some of it sucks, some of it is fantastic, and much of it is just utterly bizarre. Life is always worth living. You just have to figure out where to look.

      Sin
      And you should travel to Europe. Visit our castle along river Rhein and see towns with longer history than anything in USA beside it is from the Native American.
      One of the biggest highlights from my Australian friend was a comment about an old house we passed. "Wow, that's older than my country is known".
      As @Sin wrote their are so many things outside worth to explore.

        Sin i actually do have an interest in going to japan to try some of the food there. ive really heard a lot of good stuff about that so i definitely could try that everything just seems so expensive lol but i definitely am and have been considering the possibility of traveling a little but i definitely dont mean to be negative i just dont find that stuff as fun or interesting. i dont really like the idea of flying and driving that far is a hassle and if not more dangerous than is the same as flying. but anyway yes i do wana go to japan for some nice food

            Avery well im going to be 16 on the 23rd of this month but why is it interesting?

              vyktoryah Japan it is then! (Good choice). Did you know it's actually pretty easy to get a job teaching English in Japan? Let's aim to spend your 20th birthday in Kyoto. 😀 You could do this...
              https://www.lonelyplanet.com/articles/hiking-the-kumano-kodo-japans-ancient-pilgrimage-route
              Or go to an onsen with snow monkeys! Or dress up in Akihabara!! Japan is nuts. Why not live there for a year?

              vyktoryah i dont really like the idea of flying and driving that far is a hassle

              Yeah I'd say driving to Japan might throw up some challenges... But that's all part of the fun I guess! 😋

                    vyktoryah im not sure what in specific youre asking, sorry

                    I was asking if your mom could have started using chastity belts much earlier since she was familiar with it.

                    vyktoryah henever she was back it was always when my parents were gone and shed brng her bf over and theyd have sex etc

                    Mom puts a belt on me to prevent such things when she is gone.

                          Ines

                          Do you think she may change her mind about chastity belt,too?Or probably never?

                          vyktoryah how to quote messages like you do

                          You can highlight the part you want to quote with your mouse,and a "quote" button would appear.

                          vyktoryah ive definitely discussed all those things with my friend though and i know the risks that come withmeeting up with online people and im usually really skeptical about it but the things theyve done for me and the positions theyv eput thsmelves in for me makes me feel they are genuine. nobody knows my plans yet though

                          Be careful,and I still think some of your friends and your parents should know it and know with who,and where,you would live.And if someone can check all is ok regularly,it would be better.

                          vyktoryah from what i know though my sisters do not know about the belts. i havent asked them about it and they havent seemed any different.

                          Not a good idea,it would be better if your parents discuss it a bit with them before,and not only tell them about it when it is delivered.

                          vyktoryah they also usually dirty up the house then leave it and didnt really care. theres always dishes around the place and anytime they are home its just a tornado of clothes and stuff.

                          So the new rules don't apply?

                          Angelina she should not find out during pregnancy

                          If her two sisters wear one,she could probably guess she would have to...Even if I agree with you.

                          Sin But masturbating is not the cause of your problems.

                          And it would not make her unhappy.

                          Sin Good choice

                          I agree.

                                            vyktoryah i just dont find that stuff as fun or interesting. i dont really like the idea of flying and driving that far is a hassle and if not more dangerous than is the same as flying. but anyway yes i do wana go to japan for some nice food

                                            you should not put yourself under pressure, you are still young and the best years are yet to come. do some research on the internet about what activities are possible, you will be surprised how many possibilities there are and maybe you will find something you would like to do. 🙂

                                            Vanessa Not a good idea,it would be better if your parents discuss it a bit with them before,and not only tell them about it when it is delivered.

                                            i agree, hiding it was never a good idea

                                            Vanessa If her two sisters wear one,she could probably guess she would have to...Even if I agree with you.

                                            yes, but with pregnant women you should be very sensitive

                                                    Vanessa Do you think she may change her mind about chastity belt,too?Or probably never?

                                                    It can be possible, but I do not see it as very probable, and even if she could end trying, for sure she will wear it in a different regime.

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                                                        vyktoryah I'd say it's the sisters should be belted and you should put this to your parents who are obviously supporting them still so they can make this a condition if they want. Why should it be you restricted due to your sisters' actions?

                                                                hi sorry everyone about the late replies i got grounded but im back on now. also im new to this quoting thing so if i mess anything up with it sorry bout that. so far though from what i know today is gonna be the day me and my mom discuss whether its gonna include me with the belts or not because she got it already in the mail i believe. she just hasnt done anything with it and i think its "fitting" for my birthday idk but i feel i may not have to do it. shes not particuarly mean or anything like that

                                                                Christine I was asking if your mom could have started using chastity belts much earlier since she was familiar with it.

                                                                my mom definitely could have but her reason for having one was because a bad thing that happened to her and she used to live in a bad area. we however don't and havent since shes had kids.

                                                                Sin Or go to an onsen with snow monkeys! Or dress up in Akihabara!! Japan is nuts. Why not live there for a year?

                                                                that actually sounds RLY cool i didnt even know snow monkeys were a thing! i looked it up and thats rly neat i love how animals all got special species of eachother to deal with the different climates. i just feel its neat how it can be the same animal basically but entirely different too. that sounds pretty fun to me tbh

                                                                Vanessa So the new rules don't apply?

                                                                oh the rules do now but they didnt before. iwas just giving examples of WHY they are there now lol. because my sisters would just ruin everything around the house.

                                                                sorry if i missed anyones reply just ask me again and ill get to it

                                                                        vyktoryah oh the rules do now but they didnt before. iwas just giving examples of WHY they are there now lol. because my sisters would just ruin everything around the house.

                                                                        sorry if i missed anyones reply just ask me again and ill get to it

                                                                        So do your sisters know the new rules now?

                                                                            vyktoryah

                                                                            thanks for the update 🙂

                                                                            You have a birthday soon?
                                                                            I hope the talk goes well for you and I'm eagerly waiting for the result 🙂

                                                                                James So do your sisters know the new rules now?

                                                                                yep they do know

                                                                                Angelina You have a birthday soon?
                                                                                I hope the talk goes well for you and I'm eagerly waiting for the result

                                                                                thank you and yes! my birthday is today actually

                                                                                      Laura im not sure. i know im getting other things for my birthday of course but im not certain if its a threat atm or if its gonna happen. i should definitely know in a few hours though

                                                                                        so im back from talking with my mom and dad about everything. i went over pretty much everything ialready did with her sabout how its not really me doing the bad stuff etc. shes more so of the opinion that its a good thing but my dad sees it as a punishment i feel. so its mixed signals i guess. like she wants me to use it to better myself if i want to use it and my dad just wants me to quit watching porn and all tha stuff all together. but what we worked out in the end is that i wear it for one month starting tomorrow and then if i didnt give them any problems i can never use it again or i can keep it and use it forever if id like. my sisters are going to be belted too though. my pregnant one will be belted after her pregnancy and my other sister is being belted tomorrow with me. they dont know the news as of right now but tonight they will it could be any second really. im pretty nervous though im not gonna lie. this is a way better alternative than what could have happened for sure though. im not necessarily 1000% against it i just wish i could still masturbate but im PRETTY sure ill still be able to through it. ive got ideas that i think would work so this really isnt bad tbh. i feel it coulda gone way worse but this is definitely a preferable route for me.

                                                                                        saras happy birthday!

                                                                                        also thank you for wishing me happy birthday!

                                                                                            Angelina yes, but with pregnant women you should be very sensitive

                                                                                            Sure.

                                                                                            Ines

                                                                                            Do you discuss it with her,sometimes?

                                                                                            vyktoryah i got grounded

                                                                                            Why?

                                                                                            vyktoryah oh the rules do now but they didnt before. iwas just giving examples of WHY they are there now lol. because my sisters would just ruin everything around the house.

                                                                                            Do they follow these,now?

                                                                                            vyktoryah my birthday is today actually

                                                                                            Happy birthday(even if late)!🙂

                                                                                            vyktoryah i wear it for one month starting tomorrow

                                                                                            Not a good idea.There should be some training first.

                                                                                            vyktoryah i didnt give them any problems

                                                                                            So,after it,you can decide,as long as you have a good behavior?

                                                                                            vyktoryah my sisters are going to be belted too though.

                                                                                            Have they the same choice than you?

                                                                                            vyktoryah my pregnant one will be belted after her pregnancy

                                                                                            It would be a very hard wait for her...

                                                                                            vyktoryah they dont know the news as of right now

                                                                                            A very bad idea to not have told them before...

                                                                                            vyktoryah i could still masturbate but im PRETTY sure ill still be able to through it

                                                                                            Trust us,if it is a secure one,and well fitted(especially if from a major brand)you would not be able.