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Ines I do not like porn, but sometimes I had "problems " with books...

Me too,some books,even if not erotic ones,can have "hot" scenes which make it hard for me!

Jonas Sorry to hear it.

Thank you.

Jonas So there is behaviour change, but you think not permanent.

Yes.

Jen

To get aroused?😉

Angelina

I thought you watch it a bit to give ideas for you and your girlfriend(and got punished for it,too)?

Amateur porn is better,yes.But hard to find true amateur one,many studios try to make pro movie be considered as amateur...

Jen for me I don't think it's ever a need just want.

We have a thread about it : Is sex a "want" or a "need"?.😉

    Vanessa Me too,some books,even if not erotic ones,can have "hot" scenes which make it hard for me!

    Yes. Even some romantic parts can have a powerful effect.

      Vanessa I thought you watch it a bit to give ideas for you and your girlfriend(and got punished for it,too)?

      Amateur porn is better,yes.But hard to find true amateur one,many studios try to make pro movie be considered as amateur...

      it depends on how realistic it is, some porn is very realistic and gives good inspiration but in general i don't like most porn, not because i dislike it in general but i think something as intimate as sex should not be acted out

        Jonas Both me and my wife think I should wear the belt

        Me and my mother think differently.

        Angelina so would you say that your behaviour has become more worse because of the belt?

        I wouldn't say so.

          Christine I wouldn't say so.

          and how would you describe it? that is, if you only have the choice between your behaviour has improved or your behaviour has worsened.

            Ines

            I agree!

            Angelina

            I would not put in on the net,personally,but I've no problem some do it,and,except since I've the belt on(obviously),I liked to watch it,sometimes.

            It can be a part of foreplay with a boyfriend/girlfriend,too.

            Angelina

            It can stay the same,too.

              Vanessa I would not put in on the net,personally,but I've no problem some do it,and,except since I've the belt on(obviously),I liked to watch it,sometimes.

              Oh, I may have been a little unclear when I said "acted" I meant artificially produced orgasms, that is, something so intimate does not happen naturally. I hope you understand

                Frankly, I have not seen porn many times in my life, and I think I have not seen a orgasm in it, but I could not identify if is true or not 😅.
                In novels yes, I have read about them, but literary language is, sometimes,nice, but not very accurate.

                  Jonas

                  No it makes me think about it even more.

                  I think if I could get out I would make the most of it and make up for lost time LOL.

                  My school results are a lot better as they really went bad just before I was locked up, my parents are happier with my behaviour (except when we argue about the cage). I definitely don't think it is worth it though.

                    Angelina if you only have the choice between your behaviour has improved or your behaviour has worsened

                    Or idk.

                    Christopher17

                    I don't know why, but sometimes I have the feeling that our parents tell themselves that we perform better since we can no longer masturbate, probably to justify their own decision.

                      Angelina LOL you're probably right, are you not allowed to either? Do you wish you could? Sorry if that's too personal, I've never been able to ask a girl that.

                        Angelina

                        Ok,I misunderstood you,yes.

                        Personally,I've no problem with porn,even one with X actors,but I prefer amateur one(except if the woman is unaware of it,like revenge porn or hidden cam),often more natural and realistic.

                        Ines

                        Some are clearly fake orgasms,some are more credible.

                        Christopher17 No it makes me think about it even more.

                        Classical.

                        Christopher17 My school results are a lot better as they really went bad just before I was locked up

                        We have topic about it: Sublimation because of chastity belt.

                        Angelina

                        Possible,but you can prove it is wrong by showing your grades before and after starting to wear it.

                          Christopher17 LOL you're probably right, are you not allowed to either? Do you wish you could? Sorry if that's too personal, I've never been able to ask a girl that.

                          it's all in my profile and no i'm not allowed to masturbate and of course i wish i could 😉 🙁

                          Vanessa Personally,I've no problem with porn,even one with X actors,but I prefer amateur one(except if the woman is unaware of it,like revenge porn or hidden cam),often more natural and realistic.

                          That's exactly what I mean

                          Vanessa Possible,but you can prove it is wrong by showing your grades before and after starting to wear it.

                          well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english). 😉

                            Angelina OK sorry I didn't realise you could see profile details like that, I just worked out how to. OK I feel your pain!

                              Christopher17

                              no problem, i often write things twice, three times etc. only the most important things are written on my profile 😉

                              Angelina well, not to brag, but my grades were almost perfect before, so there wasn't much to improve (except for english). 😉

                              And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!😉

                                Vanessa And,as english has probably improved since you write here,he would have been able to tell you it is a proof that the belt have made you improve it(which is pretty true,even if not in the way he means it)!😉

                                actually, yes, my school grade also improved by one grade in the last school year, so ..... crap he was right 😂

                                  Did wearing a cb help any of you to reduce your needs of self pleasuring? In that case, how was your timeline until you stopped needing to stimulate yourself (at least that much)?

                                  I'm a little worried. Since I know I'm going to wear it, I found myself doing it even more. I keep telling myself that I'm just enjoying it for the last time in IDK how much time... I hope once it's on, it'll reduce my desire eventually.