Vanessa Do you manage it,sometimes?

yes, but rarely. the volunteers here have an enormous head start

Amira

wow, you are incredibly inspiring even for me. i am sure your mother is very proud of you 🙂

Amira I am not sure if anyone mentioned it so far but: These chains are way too short! 😆

i think everyone who wears thighbands has mentioned it here before and yes i agree with you 😂

    Amira

    Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

    Did the shower help?

    Angelina rarely

    Understandable.

      Amira Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

        Vanessa Do you consider wearing these permanently until marriage?

        what do you exactly mean?

        Chris1 Do your urges get better or worse with the time?

        I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.

          Amira what do you exactly mean?

          you are currently wearing the belt without breaks. do you plan to continue this until your wedding or do you have a specific/undefined time frame?

          Amira I am not sure, it is different on different days and even on different times of the day. I wouldn't say that it generally got better or worse.

          can you manage without breaks so far? you wrote earlier that you couldn't imagine that, so i ask

            Amira what do you exactly mean?

            Wearing the thigh bands permanently until marriage.

            Angelina do you plan to continue this until your wedding

            Good question,too.

              Vanessa Wearing the thigh bands permanently until marriage.

              the thighbands? @Amira never wore them permanently. i thought you meant the belt.

                Nice to see that I may not be the only chaste girl with Islamic faith. 😊

                  Vanessa I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

                  that would be news to me, maybe @Amira can clear it up for us

                  ZeynepFox Nice to see that I may not be the only chaste girl with Islamic faith.

                  no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

                  Vanessa I guessed she would wear the thigh bands permanently,now.

                  no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday, so nothing overly spectacular compared to others here I guess.

                    Amira no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

                    Has your wearing of a chastity belt also a religious background? I know that there are different opinions about headscarfs, but there's no disagreement about the virtues of chastity. 😊

                    Do you wear a My-Steel Total?

                    Amira no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday

                    Ok,I didn't understand you well.

                    Thank you for the clarification!🙂

                    Amira no, I don't! I wear them from Friday after school till different times on Saturday, so nothing overly spectacular compared to others here I guess.

                    so it's still only part-time, I think that's also good.

                    Amira no, you aren't, even though I am not that devotet to our faith. 🙂

                    with you it is rather the other way round because your stepfather brought the belt more as an idea because of western values. right?

                      Angelina with you it is rather the other way round because your stepfather brought the belt more as an idea because of western values. right?

                      Hmm, yes, except for my special underwear I live 100 % like the common german girl. I would say in my heart no god or other entity plays any role at all.

                        Amira

                        i think it's impressive how well you're getting along in germany now, you really are an ideal example of successful integration 😃

                          Angelina you really are an ideal example of successful integration

                          thank you, I want to have the best life possible and when I am in a new society, I just have to adapt I guess.

                            Amira

                            i am very happy to read this. may i ask a question. your stepfather adopted you (if i remember correctly), do you have a german passport now? I know it's a very personal question, but I'm just asking out of curiosity.

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                            Sure you can ask. I don't have a German passport yet, but applied for it at the Landratsamt (I am absolutely not sure how to translate that, maybe rural district office?)